Reuben and I met the way most 21st centurions do: online. I was against online dating, my catch phrase being, "why can't I meet anyone organically anymore?" Ever the steadfast wing woman, my maid of honor, Chelsea, pulled me into the modern age and got me out there. Talking with Reuben was easy. We just clicked. And we both did not expect that from online dating. Our inside joke after our first date (and our disbelief that we actually found something and someone great) was to say "fucking tinder".