Cocktail/semi-formal, please! We want you to feel comfortable. Ladies keep in mind it's an outdoor wedding and the ground is covered in wood-chips. We suggest wearing a flat shoe, wedge, or chunky heel. We're sure you will all look fabulous!
We love your kids—we really do; but we want our wedding to be your night off!
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.