FAQs

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COVID

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Everything is outside, with the exception of getting a drink at the bar, getting food from the buffet, and bathrooms. Eating/drinking/dancing/congregating/etc is outside! All of the welcome party is outside (except bathrooms). We ask that you bring your own mask and wear it when: - Inside/in line getting a drink or food, and when interacting with staff - Inside the bathroom - In any situation that makes you feel more comfortable! If you're vaccinated, let us know and you're all set! You can stop reading here. If you're not going to be fully vaccinated by 7/31, we need your help to keep all our guests (including you) safe! Please bring a negative PCR test result (not a rapid test) to whichever event you're attending first. It should be taken no earlier than Wednesday 7/28 and can be taken anywhere.

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What does Smart Casual mean?

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It means wear something nice you feel comfortable in (let's be real - suits are not comfortable and it will be hot out). Khakis or nice pants and a polo or button down/a sun dress or maxi dress are perfectly acceptable. If you wear a suit, you'll be overdressed.

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What's the weather going to be like?

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It will likely be very hot in Livermore with little shade (evenings will cool down), but cold/foggy in San Francisco. First rule of the Bay Area is always bring layers!

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Are my kid(s) invited?

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We love your kids, but please plan to leave them at home. *If not being able to bring your young child (under ~3 years old) will prevent you from coming, please reach out to us. We want you to come.

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Do you have a registry?

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We don't have a registry because we've acquired most household items over the past however many years we've lived together and don't have much space for more.   Because many of you are traveling far to join us, we are in no way expecting a gift, nor should you feel obligated in any way to give one (this goes for you local folks, too). Your presence is a gift enough! If you would still like to get us something, cash is preferred so we can put it toward a rad honeymoon and donate some to the following animal rescues. Sean Casey Animal Rescue in NYC (nyanimalrescue.org) - Kevin adopted our first dog Major from here Muttville Senior Dog Rescue in San Francisco (muttville.org) - Lauren has been volunteering here regularly since 2015

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Will I get a physical save the date and/or invitation?

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Our save the dates were all sent via email. We will send out an "official" invitation a few months before the celebration, but all RSVPs will be online. Please feel free to RSVP as soon as you know your plans.