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February 8, 2020
Westminster, CA
#ReedPhamilyFusion

tom & christie

    HI!
    questions & answers

questions & answers

Question

When should I RSVP by?

Answer

Please let us know if you can or cannot make it by THURSDAY, JANUARY 2! If you cannot make it, you will be missed! We would love to have you there but understand if you cannot attend. Please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP "no" so we may plan accordingly.

Question

Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?

Answer

Both the ceremony and reception will be indoors.

Question

Indoors? Okay but still - what's the weather gonna be like?

Answer

Considering it's February... in California... we're really not sure! Though climate change has brought both temps in the high 80s and downpours on this weekend over the years, you can probably expect crisp, dry weather in the mid- to high-60s in both Westminster and Anaheim (median temps of 68 and 66, respectively). [Christie researched and graphed the historical weather in Westminster and Anaheim (are you surprised?) to determine this, but you should probably consult your local meteorologist or Farmers' Almanac if you're really concerned.]

Question

What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

Answer

Please plan to arrive about fifteen minutes prior to the ceremony (or around 1:45 pm). There will be plenty of seating inside the church, but arriving early will give you ample time to score a prime view!

Question

What should I expect at the ceremony?

Answer

The wedding will be celebrated with a Catholic Mass and exchanging of vows. The ceremony will last approximately an hour. There will be sitting, standing, sitting (again), (more) standing, some kneeling, praying, and blessing. Please participate as much as you feel comfortable.

Question

I am not Catholic/religious - is that ok?

Answer

Absolutely! We would love if all of our guests can be in attendance. We respect the diverse cultures, lifestyles, and faiths (or lack thereof) of each of our guests. We simply want you to be there to celebrate in our union.

Question

Where and when is the reception?

Answer

The reception will be held at Mon Amour Banquet in Anaheim. It's a straight <6mi shot north of the ceremony. Cocktail hour will start promptly at 5:45 pm. If you want a formal photo with Christmas (CHRISTie and thoMAS get it??), please be sure to arrive during the cocktail hour!

Question

What's on the menu?

Answer

Light appetizers will be served during cocktail hour. Dinner will be served family style over many many (many) courses. The courses are varied and include seafood, chicken, beef, and pork. If Tom thinks there will be plenty of food, rest assured you will not be wanting. Be prepared to leave stuffed!! We hope that the various cuisines will suit your needs, but should you have a severe dietary restriction, please let us know and we will do our best to accommodate you.

Question

What about bevs?

Answer

We are happy to say the FULL bar will be hosted... all... night... long (or until we run out)! Please make sure to bring your ID :)

Question

What should I wear?

Answer

We hope our wedding will be a fun excuse to dress up, but please wear whatever is comfortable for you. Most guests will likely be wearing suits (or shirt & tie) and dressy/cocktail attire to both the ceremony and reception. Please be mindful that the ceremony will be held at a place of worship, but some guests prefer to change into more dressy, party- and dance-friendly attire for the reception.

Question

Are kids welcome?

Answer

Yes! Please let us know if your child(ren) will be in tow.

Question

Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

Answer

Parking is plentiful and free at both the ceremony and reception sites. Ceremony parking is available directly adjacent to the church as well as at the lot directly across from the church (at the NW corner). The reception site is located in the corner of a shopping center. With the exception of the banquet hall, most businesses will be closed for the evening and therefore there will be ample parking.

Question

Do you have any hotel recommendations?

Answer

Yes! We have reserved a block of rooms at the Courtyard Marriott. Please see the "Hotels" tab for details.

Question

Can I take a centerpiece/decor home as a souvenir?

Answer

We will have a game or other way of randomizing who can take home centerpieces. Our MC will announce this at the reception!

Question

Will there be an afterparty?

Answer

That's the plan! A non-hosted afterparty is TBA.

Question

Can I leave my car at the venue?

Answer

Unfortunately, no. Please do not leave any cars overnight.

Question

Can I take and post pictures of the wedding on social media?

Answer

Of course! We simply ask you to be mindful of our photographers and videographers and to pay appropriate respect during the wedding ceremony itself. Please use our wedding hashtag #ReedPhamilyFusion so that we can see Christie's ugly cry and Tom's power slide later!

Question

I still have questions. What do I do??

Answer

We're excited you're excited! Please text Christie (714.504.0679) or Tom (310.503.3273) directly if you have additional questions. But preferably not on the wedding day lol.

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