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May 27, 2023
La Jolla, CA

Rebecca & Jay

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If you have any other questions other than what we’ve listed here please reach out to Rebecca at (925)698-4458.
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Are kids invited?

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Unfortunately as our venue is not suitable for little ones, this will be an adults-only reception. We hope this will allow you a much-deserved night off to celebrate with us. However, if you are traveling with your children to our wedding, and need childcare please visit munchkinminders.com to find local nannies that could provide childcare during our events.

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Do I get a plus one?

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Due to space constraints at our venue, we are regrettably unable to extend invitations for additional plus ones. We appreciate your understanding and look forward to celebrating with you!

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Can we take video during the ceremony?

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We can’t wait to tie the knot in front of our favorite people! We hope that you can enjoy this special moment with us camera-free, so please, no photos or videos until our ceremony's conclusion. Once we receive the professional images from our photographer after the wedding, we will be happy to send them to you!

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Saturday : Yes, there is street parking available around the venue, or you can park at either of these nearby parking lots 875 Prospect St (4 min walk) 7641 Fay Ave (6 min walk) Sunday: Yes, If you plan on driving yourself and parking at the venue please let us know so we can get a parking permit for you in advance. Uber/Lift is Recommended.

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes, with Rebecca & Jay ... of coarse there is a dress code! Saturday is traditional Indian clothing or cocktail attire. Sunday is Black Tie Optional For more specifics please see definitions & suggestions below.

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I'm not Indian, is it appropriate for me to wear traditional Indian clothing to the Indian Wedding / Sangeet?

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Absolutely! We love that you are excited to participate in our multi cultural event, and welcome you to embrace the colors, styles and fashions of the Indian culture.

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Where can I buy or rent an Indian wedding outfit?

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Here are a few suggestions... To Buy: Check if there are any Indian apparel boutiques in your area... Fremont (Nor Cal) and Cerritos (So Cal) are a few areas with multiple options that we are familiar with. You can also find some options on Asos, Etsy , and Amazon To Rent: Sites like Riya Collective and Saris and Things allow shoppers to rent a traditional ensemble for weddings instead of purchasing a brand new outfit. https://www.riyacollective.com/ https://www.sarisandthings.com/

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What is Traditional Indian Clothing

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Wedding attire for male and female guests are adorned with interesting colors, patterns, prints, and embellishments. Indian weddings are known for colors and gorgeous patterns, That being said, don’t be afraid to accessorize! Women: The traditional Indian two-piece attire is called a lehenga. Besides lehenga, another popular attire that female guests can wear for Indian weddings is the saree, a fabric draped from the shoulders to ankles. If you don’t like skirts, you can also consider wide-leg pants called sharara with a tunic top called kurti. You can opt for ornate jewelry pieces like necklaces, earrings, and even bangles. Your bag can also be beaded and adorned to enhance your look. Men: A sherwani jacket with matching pants is traditional. Male guests can also opt for a long-sleeved kurti if they prefer it over the long sherwani jacket.

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What does Cocktail Attire mean?

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Women- Cocktail attire typically calls for a dress that finishes at or above the knees and high heels. Although cocktail looks should always appear sophisticated, they can also be fun and embrace exciting colors, embellishments, cuts, and unique accessories. Men- Men should wear a dress shirt and slacks, tie is optional.

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What is black tie optional for women?

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Mid-length or full-length dresses are ideal. If you go with a midi, short, or high-low hemline, play up the fancy factor with specialty fabrics. In terms of accessories, try adding two to three statement pieces like chandelier earrings, an eye-catching headband, or a faux fur wrap. For footwear stick to heels, dressy wedges or more formal flats.

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What is black tie optional for men?

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You can certainly wear a tuxedo, but it is not required. For those who don't, go for a suit in a dark color such as navy blue, black, or grey. Ties are recommended, but not required. For footwear, leather or patent dress shoes are suggested, but we always appreciate a chic loafer or a dressy sneaker.

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