Raymond & Patrick
FAQs
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What should I wear? Is there a dress code?
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Semi-formal. We will be in suits! Early October temps in Montauk are usually in the 50s and 60s. The Lighthouse grounds can get windy. So definitely carry a sweater with you.
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Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?
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Outdoors. If the weather takes a turn, we'll have a tent for the reception.
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What happens after the ceremony?
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We'll head over to the reception at Sole East, about a 10-minute drive. There is ample parking there, as well as at the Lighthouse. Still, we're looking into getting shuttle service -- TBD on that. The cocktail hour at the reception is 1-2pm, and lunch and lawn dancing is 2-4pm. After that, who knows....
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Are there other wedding events I can attend?
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We'll be in Montauk Friday night and plan to organize an informal drinks get-together for anyone who would like to join. After the reception we plan to have a after-party of sorts at the Montauket for anyone still in the area and want to continue to celebrate with us.
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How do I get to the venue?
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More to come on this, but for now: Lighthouse: https://www.discoverlongisland.com/member/montauk-point-lighthouse-museum/ Sole East: https://www.soleeast.com/
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What should I do if I can’t make it?
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Please text us, for now; invitations will be going out soon!
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Are kids welcome?
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While we love your little ones, our wedding is going to be primarily an adults-only event so that everyone can relax and enjoy the evening. We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time.
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Can I bring a date?
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We have a strict guest list to stay on budget. Our wedding is strictly RSVP only. We will only be able to accommodate those listed on your invitation.
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When is the RSVP deadline? Do I need to mail back my RSVP or can I do it online?
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September 1, 2022
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Will food and drinks be served at the reception? What kind of food?
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Yes, food and drinks. A mix of surf, turf and Latin American cuisine.
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Will transportation be provided in Montauk?
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TBD
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I still have questions, what is the best way to contact you?
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Please contact Patrick or Ray directly. We are reachable via text or call.
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What safety measures will be taken on your wedding day?
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Everyone who attends will need to be vaccinated and have at least one booster. We will be monitoring the Covid situation and will update accordingly.
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Anything else I should know about the wedding?
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It will be gay. Gay gay gay. Ron DeSantis might not approve, but there you have it.