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RSVPs are now active!!!
RSVPs are now active!!!
April 9, 2022
Bakersfield, CA
#McabeeStilldo

Rachel & Jeramy

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Are children allowed?

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Although we adore your children.. due to capacity and safety (the wedding will be on the edge of the Kern River) only children from our bridal party, lap babies and out of town children will be invited. Please take this as an opportunity to have a date night and celebrate with us! If you have any questions or concerns please speak with Rachel.

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Do I have to RSVP?

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We will turn in our headcount a month and a half before the big day. If you have not submitted your RSVP by the due date then unfortunately you won’t be able to attend the reception due to limited capacity.

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What should I wear?

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We will be outside in the grass by the river but we kindly ask our guests to wear business casual ,Flats or wedges may be best for women. Please no graphic t-shirts or colors traditionally reserved for the bride such as white/ivory or champagne.

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You have all the pots and pans you need but I still want to bring you something. Any ideas?

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Everyone knows we like to do things differently and although we have a few gifts for household upgrades on our registry, we also have another plan! We know it’s not traditional and not the way it’s done but rather than a wedding gift we’d like time in the sun! So if you’d like to give a gift and send us on our way a donation to our honeymoon would really make our day!!!

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What should I do after the ceremony?

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Photos will be taken right away after the ceremony and guests are encourage to head to the cocktail area. Chips and salsa will be provided while you wait. We have games available throughout the venue as well. The reception will begin after photos with dinner being served shortly after our grand entrance!

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I heard there’s karaoke. Is that true and do I have to sing?

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Yes... you can sing for your dinner (and get first dibs on food) or you can wait until your table is called. You are more than welcomed to karaoke the night away as well!

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Can I request a song?

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Go ahead.. No guarantee it will make the cut but send in those request!!

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What kind of food will you have?

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We have a very nice menu planned out and are not able to accommodate everyone’s dislikes/allergies. It will be served buffet style as well. Please message MOH Rebecca if you have questions about what will be on the menu.

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Drinks

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This is a non alcoholic celebration! We will have tea, water,coffee and soda available. Alcohol is not allowed to be brought on property from guests! So don’t bring anything unless you want to be asked to leave.

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What time should I arrive?

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The celebration will begin at 4:00. We ask that you arrive no earlier than 3:00

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Can I bring a date?

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Your RSVP will have that information on there. We have a very strict guest count so If you don’t see a plus 1 slot on your invitation then please DO NOT bring a date...

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May I take home centerpieces?

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Most of the centerpieces belong to the venue so we ask that you not take those home unless instructed to by Jeramy and Rachel.

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Is your wedding unplugged?

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We have hired a wonderful photographer for our special day so please no photos DURING the ceremony until our officiant says so. You can take as many as you want at the reception though!

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Do you have a wedding hashtag?

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Of course we do!! It’s #McabeeStilldo

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What time is the reception over?

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We have to leave the venue by 10:30 so will start shutting down everything about an hour before!

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I still have questions. What is the best way to contact you?

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You can text Jeramy or Rachel up to a week before the wedding The week of only speak with JoHanna Luna or Rebecca Magee Day of you can contact Violet, our wedding coordinator. *We will not have our phones on us the day of wedding so please keep that in mind!*

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