Even though we love your kids, we want our wedding night to be your night off! So, no kids.
If your invitation says “and Guest" then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
The dress code is "Semiformal" or "Dressy Casual". For the ladies: A cocktail dress, dressy suit or a long dress skirt and top. For the men: A suit and tie, dark or light depending on the season and time of day.