FAQs

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Venue Rules

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- Helium balloons, glitter, confetti, adhesives of any kind, fake flower petals, and fireworks are prohibited - Amplified music is prohibited on the outdoor patio (ceremony music and amplified vocals are allowed) - Permit holders are responsible for all setup and cleanup including sweep/mop, trash removal, stacking furniture - Music and alcohol service stops 1 hour before end time - Venue must be cleaned and vacated by 11:00 pm

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What are the rules on alcohol?

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The venue's rules on alcohol are: - Any alcohol being served requires a certified bartender - No self-service is allowed - Alcohol must be consumed within boundaries only (on the property) - Alcohol service stops at 10pm

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Will there be an open bar?

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There will be a licensed bartender on site and each person over 21 will receive 2 drink tickets. Each drink ticket will allow one cocktail. You can gift/receive drink tickets. We will also have unlimited beer and wine. We only ask that you do not become excessively intoxicated or the bartender con not serve you anymore.

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Are my partner and kids invited?

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While we love all the kids in our families and of our friends, we want the wedding to be a day for all the adults to enjoy- as kid free as possible. If your partner or children are invited, the invitation will denote it.

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Can I bring a plus-one or request someone be invited?

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While we appreciate your enthusiasm to celebrate this day with us and someone special to you, we ask that you do not extend an invite anyone else or ask the couple to invite anyone else on your behalf. Our wedding day is a sacred day that allows the bride and groom to spend their time with love-ones who truly mean the most to them. While their love extends beyond the people in the room on the wedding day, that day is reserved for folks who the couple feels the MOST connected to and vulnerable with, to share this intimate celebration with. Thank you for your understanding.

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Can I bring my children?

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As much as we adore your children, we’re only including a few little-guests in our celebration. We hope you understand and can still join us for this special day!

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Are the Ceremony and Reception at the same place?

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Yes. The ceremony will take place on the outdoor patio of the venue, while dinner and the reception will take place inside the venue. The venue is the Chief Hosa Lodge in Golden Colorado. See the Schedule tab for more information on the venue.

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What should I wear?

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This is a Semi-Formal or Black-Tie-optional event. This dress code typically implies either a suit, blazer or a dress-shirt with dress pants, cocktail dress, pant-suite or midi-length dress. Please do not wear jeans, flip-flops/chacos, shorts, baseball caps, flannels, leggings, etc. Please copy and paste this link in your web browser for more info: https://www.theknot.com/content/what-to-wear-semi-formal

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What will the weather be like on October 17th, 2025?

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Denver's summer heat has extended to autumn, leaving daytime temperatures around 60 degrees. With the sun out, it will feel much hotter. I will update this FAQ once it is closer the wedding date.

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Is there available parking?

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There is a free parking lot adjacent to the venue that can fit up to 50 cars. We ask that you all carpool, if you can, to save parking space, gas, time and the environment!

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How do I avoid altitude sickness (Acute Mountain Sickness) if I’m coming from sea-level?

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The guide linked here is just a guide, and we still encourage you to talk to your doctor if you have any health conditions you’re worried about. They may be able to prescribe you a medication that can reduce your risk of altitude sickness. Generally speaking, the best way to adjust to the high altitude is to: Gradually increasing altitude acclimation over a few days (or weeks if possible). Avoid alcohol for the first 48 hours at high altitude. Symptoms of altitude sickness are headache, nausea, vomiting, fatigue, dizziness, and insomnia. If not appropriately treated, AMS can progress to life-threatening HACE or HAPE, which can present together or separately. Source: https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/15111-altitude-sickness

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When should I arrive in Colorado?

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The elevation in the mountains can be a very hard place to settle if you have lung capacity issues, asthma, or other lung diseases. It's best to arrive at least a day or two before the wedding to let yourselves adjust to the elevation.

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What else should I know about traveling to Colorado?

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Drink lots of water everyday!! Chief Hosa Lodge, our venue, will be at 7,700 ft above sea-level. The elevation will dehydrate you quicker than being at sea-level and getting elevation sickness is no fun. If you are able to, increase your stamina with some exercise to prepare for dancing and fun at elevation!

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Is the bride changing hers last name?

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The bride has chosen not to change her last name after marriage as a way of honoring her personal identity, and the life she has built under her name. While traditions vary, this choice reflects her values and the couple’s mutual respect for individuality within their partnership.

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Is the wedding outside?

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The ceremony will take place on the patio of the lodge, if weather allows. The reception will be indoors.