FAQs
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What should I wear?
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Dressy casual feels just right—polished, comfortable, and celebration-ready! Think dresses, jumpsuits, or separates with a little flair; dress shirts and slacks for the guys (no tie required, unless you're feeling fancy). We kindly ask that guests skip jeans, shorts, and flip flops. Just wear something you feel great in, and you'll fit right in.
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Can I bring my kids?
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Kind of—it depends! We were both lucky enough to grow up going to weddings and still talk about how magical (and sugar-filled) those nights were. We’re keeping things on the smaller side and only inviting kiddos we know personally. If your kiddo’s name pops up when you RSVP on our website, they’re in! Otherwise, this celebration will be adults-only—think of it as a little excuse to dress up, relax, and enjoy a cocktail or two in peace.
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What’s the schedule for the day?
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Guests are welcome to arrive starting at 4:00 PM. The ceremony begins at 4:20 PM (yes, on purpose). From there, we’ll move right into cocktails, dinner, and dancing—come ready to eat, drink, and have a great time.
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Where should I stay?
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We’ve reserved blocks at a few great hotels nearby, from modern and funky to classic and comfy. Head over to the Travel page for the full rundown (and booking links, because we’re helpful like that).
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Is there parking at the venue?
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Yes! The Cotton Room has free parking in the Golden Belt Campus lot. It’s a short walk to the entrance, and yes, you can absolutely wear comfy shoes and change later. We support sensible choices.
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Do I need to RSVP?
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Yes please! You can RSVP right on our website by August 13, 2025. It helps us with headcounts, seating, and making sure there’s enough cake (a true priority).
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Are you registered anywhere?
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We are! You’ll find all the details on our Registry page—but most of all, we’re just excited to celebrate with you.
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Will there be food and drinks?
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Definitely. We’ll have plenty of tasty food and a full open bar, including signature cocktails to sip while you celebrate.
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Can I take photos during the ceremony?
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We’d love for you to be fully present during the ceremony, so we’re asking guests to put phones and cameras away until it’s time to celebrate. After that? Snap away! Tag us, text us, show us your best angles.
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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?
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Everything will be indoors—The Cotton Room is a gorgeous industrial-chic space with giant windows, exposed brick, and no surprise weather events.
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What’s the best airport if I’m flying in?
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RDU (Raleigh-Durham International Airport) is your best bet. It’s about a 20-minute drive to the venue and the hotels we’ve recommended.
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Are you doing an after-party?
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Not officially—but after the reception ends at 10:00 PM, we’ll be heading to the bar at Aloft Durham Downtown to wind down with a drink and some extra time with friends and family. The bar’s open until midnight, and drinks will be pay-your-own. No pressure, just good company if you feel like keeping the night going a little longer.