FAQs

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Are Kids Invited?

Answer

We love your kids- we really do, but we want our wedding to be your night off! We have addressed each invite accordingly.

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What is the dress code?

Answer

Formal/cocktail. The more casual cousin of black tie, but dressier than business attire. We want you to be comfortable, but dress to impress! :)

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Can I bring a date?

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If your invitation says " and guest" then yes, if not, we prefer if it was just you.

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Is there a shuttle to and from the hotel to the ceremony?

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Yes, check out our Travel & Accommodations page for all the info you need.

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Do I get to pick what I want to eat for the reception? I didn't see an option on the invite.

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Yes, you will be able to choose what you would like to eat as your main course. Old Tappan Manor provides each table with a server for the night, so you will be picking "night of" what you would like to eat. -Just in case you change your mind after our cocktail hour spread!

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Do I have to wear a mask

Answer

No you do not have to, we just ask that if you feel under the weather or have a fever day of to stay home.