Helen & Patrick
Wedding Party
Jessica Cho
Co-Matron of Honor
Helen’s younger sister by four years and her favorite one. Growing up, their age gap kept them from being super close, but as adults, they’ve become inseparable. Their bond really clicked during a visit to San Francisco, where Jessica saw Helen’s true quirky side—and her unforgettable dance moves. Since then, they’ve shared countless laughs, heart-to-hearts, and sister moments that only get better with time.
Tien Anderson
Co-Matron of Honor
Helen met Tien back in 2009 as coworkers, and by the next year, they were roommates—and basically family ever since. What started as shared takeout and late-night laughs turned into a lifelong sisterhood. They talk or text almost every day, and Helen makes quarterly trips to San Diego to keep their streak (and their favorite food spots) alive. Tien has seen every version of Helen—good, bad, and dance-off-worthy—and somehow still loves her anyway. Helen swears Tien has made her a better person in every way that matters.
Ramier Poquiz
Best Man
Ramier has known Pat since their 20s, which means decades of friendship, inside jokes, and questionable decisions. The two talk so often that they jokingly refer to each other as “boyfriend” — and honestly, the title fits. Though Ramier now lives in Texas, that hasn’t slowed their connection one bit. In fact, he’s even trying to convince Pat to move there so they can start a homestead together (because clearly, their bromance deserves its own zip code). Loyal, hilarious, and one of Pat’s oldest friends, Ramier is the perfect best man to stand by his side.
Sean Rader
Groomsman
Sean is Pat’s oldest son — a talented juggler, magician, and all-around creative powerhouse. Pat proudly (and endlessly) brags about Sean’s skills to anyone who will listen. The two share plenty of similarities in their habits and mannerisms, though they couldn’t be more different when it comes to politics (which makes for some very lively conversations). Despite their differences, Sean and Pat share an unmistakable bond built on humor, respect, and a healthy dose of mutual admiration.
Christopher Rader
Groomsman
Christopher is Pat’s youngest son — affectionately known as the family’s gentle giant. He inherited the creative gene too, channeling it into his passion for writing. While he’s often tucked away in his room deep into a video game, Chris is also the first to offer a hug, a “love you,” or (if you’re lucky) a playful rear naked choke. Thoughtful, funny, and full of heart, Chris brings a quiet warmth to every room — when he decides to leave his.