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Attire

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Attire We encourage military members to wear their mess dress or service uniform (or if females prefer a beautiful dress!! PS: Military Ladies! please bring your service or mess dress jacket for a photo!) Jackets will be removed during the reception for comfort and dancing! For civilian guests: we encourage BOLD color, upscale high fashion coastal cocktail attire. Think elevated but relaxed San Diego evening energy ie: midi dresses, flowy silhouettes, lightweight fabrics, linen or breathable suit jackets, open-collar dress shirt & jackets or high fashion stylish coastal-inspired cocktail attire! We want you to look and feel your best! Typical Sept San Diego weather: 70-80 degrees with an ocean breeze. For reference, our wedding colors are shades of blue with white and vibrant colorful florals woven throughout the celebration. While there is absolutely no expectation to match the palette, we wanted to share the overall aesthetic and atmosphere as inspiration for the weekend as many have asked, or if families would like to take portraits together with the bride and groom. Our goal is for everyone to feel comfortable, elevated, and ready for an unforgettable night of celebration, connection, and dancing.

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Questions Asked

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RSVP Names with events will be loaded to the website shorty, please RSVP to the specific event on this website. Are Children Invited? We absolutely love your families. We encourage guests to enjoy this as an adults-focused evening and consider it a fun night out for you and your significant other. However, we completely understand travel circumstances, and families are welcome if needed. What Will the Wedding Be Like? Our celebration will be a short outdoor ceremony followed by a cocktail-style reception. Think elevated lounge party, incredible food, great music, dancing, and a relaxed social atmosphere rather than a very formal or highly structured evening. What Time Should I Arrive? We recommend arriving 15–20 minutes early to allow time for parking, check-in, and seating before the ceremony begins. Can I Take Photos During the Ceremony? YES! Please take lots of photos, silly selfies, and fun videos throughout the evening. We would love to combine everyone’s memories with the professional photos afterward for all to enjoy. Feel free to post in real time and tag us! Social Media & Military Courtesy Out of respect for Department of Defense considerations and the privacy of our military guests, we kindly ask that guests avoid posting or filming close-up video content once the military jackets and service coats come off later in the evening and the dance party begins. General group photos and fun memories are absolutely encouraged — we simply ask everyone to be mindful and respectful of privacy during that portion of the celebration.

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Are you married!?

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If so, could you please text your favorite wedding photo of you & your spouse to Paris: 619-724-1462