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Adepoju:
In 2020, I was served breakfast—not the kind with eggs, toast, and fluffy pancakes, but the Nigerian kind that leaves your heart in crumbs. Love had worn me out. In my post-breakfast blues, I made a declaration—half prayer, half prophecy:
"God, I am done. The next person I meet will be my bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh." I was serious. I was tired. I was surrendered. What I didn’t know? God had already started working behind the scenes.
Around that time, I made a new friend through my cousin—one of those divine helpers at the time disguising as just a regular friend o to get through covid boredom. One day she said, "I know someone. She’s full of life, beautiful, kind… I think you two would really get along." I was skeptical but intrigued. So I waited—for the number that would change everything. Oyinda:
God always writes the best stories. And ours? Had a great plot twist. At the same time in 2020, literally the same period that he was crying out to God, I had also gone through my own heartbreak and was now minding my business—literally. I was building my company, diving deep in my faith, and filming a series-turned-limited-show. I wasn’t looking for romance. I was looking for purpose. Then God whispered: “Reach out to____ (an old friend I hadn’t spoken to in 2 years). Go and see her.”
So I did. We reconnected, laughed, shared stories of what we had missed in those years apart. And then 4/5 months later… she started talking about him. Her new friend.
 "Just talk to him," she kept saying. I was not interested. But after some nudging (and a little divine comfort about the worries of my heart of being hurt again), I said yes.
That yes? Changed everything. Adepoju:
So I finally texted after 2 months of back and forth. She was interesting, fun and indeed full of life but then she replied to messages three business days later. I told myself, "Don’t catch feelings, bro." I kept a few conversations with other ladies going just in case (we listen, we dont judge) But slowly, she started making more time for me.
We went on our first date. Somewhere between then and now—between laughter, late-night talks, heartfelt prayers, a few disagreements, and lots of humility—I found myself doing life with a woman so full of light, peace, and overflowing joy. Oyinda:
When he reached out, I was neck-deep in purpose.
New business. New series. New levels of faith. A man? Not on my vision or mood board. 😅 But then God whispered again: “Go ahead. Don’t be afraid. I’m with you, even in this.” So we met. And now 4 years later, we hereeeee 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

Adepoju: One thing about us—you should know this by now—anywhere and everywhere we can give God glory, we will. This proposal? One of the many stories that prove it.I had always wanted to propose on July 5. Don’t ask me why—actually, she’ll explain that later. What started as a simple plan turned into a full-on masterclass in divine orchestration. The original rooftop venue I had in mind was under renovation. They kept promising, then shifting, then ghosting. I moved the date twice. Finally, I went to the One who always comes through:"God, abeg, what do You want me to do?" He led me to reconnect with my cousin. And guess what? She had a poolside rooftop space that checked every box. Boom. Location: secured. Now, I had already spent an arm, a leg, and a few toes on the ring, so I needed divine help for the rest. I knew Oyinda didn’t want anything loud—intimacy has always been her love language. I learned that when I asked her out. She’s not about the spotlight; she’s about the soul. So I started reaching out to vendors...And God? He started reaching out to them too. Photographer. Decor. Catering. Rentals. Content creation. All top-tier people—some who’ve worked on celebrity events—called me back saying things like, “Just cover transport,” or even, “I’ll do it for free.” No stress. No pressure. Just favor. Once the date was locked in, it was time to get Oyinda ready. Her sister became my covert agent. I’ll let Oyinda explain how well that went. Oyinda: Yes, I knew it was coming. We’d been dating for three years. We’d talked marriage, building a home, starting a family. My parents knew him. My friends loved him. The only thing missing was the ring—and that man’s bold voice asking a bold question. My sister Jo and my friend Tiwa were given the task of prepping me, but covert operations are not their ministry 😂. I got my nails done, lashes (first time!), hair slayed, and picked out a fire outfit for what they called a “girlfriends treat-yourself night.” As if I was born yesterday. Adepoju: According to my wife-to-be, they failed. But I still made her cry, so I’m counting it as a win. 😌36 hours before D-day, the Holy Spirit nudged me to do something simple. I didn’t think much of it—but thank God I obeyed. That small thing? Turned out to be her favorite part of the entire proposal.Like always, God knows the hearts of His children.The actual day was a bit chaotic (as expected), but everything somehow came together perfectly. Oyinda: Anyway, I showed up two hours late. (Let’s not judge—I was also two and a half hours late to our first date, so I’m just staying consistent 🙃.) Even though it wasn’t a full surprise, my people… God na God o. I. Cried. Watch the video—you’ll understand. That week, I had been going through old photos, reflecting on how far we’d come: our beginnings, job transitions, broken trust, healing from past relationships, weddings, family stuff, grief, spiritual growth… the whole journey. And I found myself in tears, overwhelmed with gratitude. God had carried us. And then what did this my Spirit-filled, pressure-proof man do? He printed four photos from our journey: Our first brunch date. First movie date. First wedding we attended together. The wedding where we knew: “This will be us soon.” Each photo had a caption: “Grace started it.”“Grace sustains it.”“Grace will finish it.” “Grace truly is our story. I love you.” I cried again. He handed each one to someone who represented that season of my life. I never wanted a big proposal—but you see, God knows what you truly want, even when you don’t. In that moment, I felt seen, deeply loved, and covered. My heart? Full. My eyes? Leaking. Adepoju:I saw her crying....

Adepoju: I saw her crying. I was glad. I was so nervous. I knew she’d say yes—I mean, after that kind of prayer? Eve didn’t say no to Adam. And I’m Adam’s son (lol, I de play). I forgot half my speech. Just said a few words, and as soon as the tears came, I put the ring on. Relieved. We were stepping into the next chapter. Oyinda: He proposed—voice shaking, bless him—but he was bold. I didn’t even say “yes” before he stood up and started putting the ring on my finger. Just vibes and assumptions 😂 (To be fair, men de try. Women it is not easy to propose o) Then I saw the ring. My eyes widened. I thought, Who’s supposed to wear this outside? It was gorgeous. A healthy rock. A generational diamond. I was lowkey calculating, “Shouldn’t this man have saved some of this money for our wedding?” But also? I jumped. I danced. I blushed. We ended the night with a few close friends who quietly slipped away. Then it was just us—poolside, with a private chef and our favorite entertainment: each other. (PS: Our mutual friend who introduced us couldn’t make it, but she got front-row access to the video. We’re forever grateful for her.) Adepoju: Wait—babe, tell them about July 5. Oyinda: Ooops! Yes—so, long story short: he asked me for my birthday around June, and I told him July 5. I wanted a gift and to be celebrated early that year 😂. One week to that day, he was deep in planning so had to come clean and told him the truth. Man was shook. He thought, “Who is this psycho that lies like this?!” But what can I say? All of him loves all of me. And as the kind, generous king he is, he still celebrated me like a queen. We went to dinner. I think he got me a necklace and a gift box. Are you happy? Now people will call me a liar. Adepoju: Yes, I did. And yes, you were a liar. But I’m happy you’ve changed, my love. 🫶🏽

Adepoju: I have prayed for you multiple times. How about you say this one for yourself or/and for a friend that you are trusting God for to get married purposefully. Heavenly Father, Good Lord, Giver of all good treasures. I come before You with a heart full of gratitude for the love You have shown me. I acknowledge that every good gift comes from You, and I thank You for the blessings of companionship and love. You know my heart—you see the longing, the confusion, the fear, and the hope. I want a good and healthy marriage, Lord, but some days, I don’t even know where to start. I admit I’ve been afraid. Afraid of choosing wrong. Afraid of being hurt. Afraid of not being enough. I’ve carried pain from the past, and sometimes I let that pain speak louder than Your promise. But today, I surrender that fear to You. Heal what’s been broken. Teach me to trust again—not just in love, but in You. I ask that You shine Your light into the deepest parts of my heart, dispelling any darkness that clouds my judgment and understanding. If it’s preparation I need—emotionally, spiritually, financially—then prepare me, Lord. For times I fear commitment due to past hurts or uncertainties about the future, grant me the courage to trust in Your plan. Heal my wounds and restore my faith in love. For times that I feel unprepared, whether due to financial instability or personal insecurities, provide me with the wisdom and resources to build a stable foundation. Help me to understand that true wealth lies not in material possessions but in the richness of character and love. If I’ve been chasing unrealistic ideals or delaying because of my own standards or distractions, open my eyes. I no longer struggle with unrealistic expectations or the desire for perfection, reminded that only You is perfect. Teach me to appreciate the beauty in imperfection and to seek a partner who complements me, not one who meets unattainable ideals. Give me the grace to see the beauty of the woman You have crafted for me—bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh. May I recognize her when I see her, and be wise enough not to let her pass me by. Shape me into the kind of man who can build and sustain a home filled with peace, love, and honor. Help me see that being ready isn’t about perfection—it’s about surrender and growth. God, if my heart has grown cold or passive because of past traumas from my parents or guardians, let your love fill the void and cleanse me from the trauma in my soul and body. Light a fire in me again and align my desires with Your will. Lead me not just to a woman, but to the one You have set apart for me. Let our union bring You glory. I trust in Your timing and Your plan, knowing that You are faithful to fulfill Your promises. Strengthen me as a future husband and father, prepare me, and lead me to the love selflessly. And until that day, make me a man worth being married to. In Jesus’ name,
Amen.

Oyinda: Heavenly Father, I come before You with a heart full of hope and gratitude. I acknowledge that You are the Author of love and the Creator of all relationships. I thank You for the wisdom and strength You have bestowed upon me thus far. Lord, I ask that You illuminate my path and guide me toward the man You have destined for me. Help me to recognize him when he arrives, and grant me the discernment to build a relationship rooted in Your love and truth. I pray for healing from past hurts and disappointments. You said perfect love casts out all fear. Let your perfect love, remove any fear, bitterness, or insecurity that may hinder me from embracing love fully. Replace them with peace, confidence, and a spirit of forgiveness. Do not let me depend on a man to complete me with the love that only you can do, or the healing only you can do. Grant me the grace to be a woman of virtue, kindness, and wisdom. I am a helper, not a burden to my husband. I am his peace and calm. May my actions reflect Your love, and may I be a source of encouragement and support to my future husband. Help me to cultivate a heart that is patient, understanding, and ready to nurture a loving partnership. Help me to forgive quickly now, so I can do same when I find him. Lord, I also pray for the man You are preparing for me. May he be a man of integrity, faith, and compassion. Guide him to be the leader, partner, and friend that You have called him to be. Prepare his heart to receive the love and companionship I offer, and help him to grow in his relationship with You. I pray for my friends who are getting married that you bless their homes and that you remove any envy from my heart concerning them. We will all rejoice at the end of the day because the race is not to the swift. Father, I trust in Your perfect timing and plan. I surrender my desires and timelines to You, knowing that Your ways are higher than mine. Help me to remain steadfast in faith, hopeful in love, and confident in Your provision. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.