Our wedding attire is semi-formal/cocktail, please come dressed like you are going for a nice dinner! Examples include dresses, jumpsuits, khakis/chinos and a dress shirt/sport coat.
While we love all of your children, this will be primarily an adults-only event. We appreciate your understanding and coordination of childcare for this event.
Unfortunately we are unable to accommodate additional guests. On your invitation we will indicate if a plus one has been added in your honor.
Please arrive 15 minutes early (4:15 CDT) this way you can find your seats and get settled in prior to the ceremony starting. If you arrive late, please stand in the back until the bride and wedding party has made it down the aisle before seating yourself in the back.
Yes, parking will be available on site and will be available for overnight parking until 9 am the next day. But we are also planning on having a shuttle from the hotel (to be determined).
Please reach out to the bride or groom with dietary requests.
Please see the travel section for the hotels we have blocks for (coming soon). Otherwise there are plenty of airbnbs and bed and breakfasts near the venue.
We have a hired a wonderful photographer and for our ceremony we would appreciate that they are able to capture photos without cell phones and other devices in them. Please refrain from taking photos during the ceremony. During the rest of the evening please take as many photos as you would like!
We kindly ask that if you share photos to please share them using our wedding hashtag #prender4ever this way we can easily locate them and see our special day through your eyes.
Our ceremony is planned to be outside, so please dress appropriate for the weather. The reception will be inside the barn on property that does not have AC but there will be Fans if needed. You will also have access to the outdoor area during the reception and for cocktail hour.