FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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July 15th 2025. If you know sooner, please let us know!

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Are you registered?

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Yes, there is a registry tab at the top of this website.

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Is there a dress code?

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Cocktail or Garden Attire: Short or long dresses, jumpsuits, or sets for the ladies. The bride and groom prefer if they are the only ones in solid white or black; bright colors are encouraged. Suits not required. Choose shoes carefully as you will have to walk on grass to get the the ceremony.

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Only my name was on the invitation. Can I bring a date?

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This will be an intimate affair and capacity at our venues is very limited. If we didn't include a guest on your invitation, but you would like to bring someone special, please contact Patrick or Molly for our consideration.

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Are kids welcome?

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Kids are welcome at the Ceremony at Harkness Park. The reception at Engine Room is 21+. If you need a recommendation for a local sitter, we can help with that.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes! We have blocked rooms at The Whaler's Inn and Mystic Marriott. This information is listed under the "Hotels & Flights" tab on this website.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Dinner will be buffet style with a variety of food, including vegetarian and gluten free options.

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I'm coming from out of town, do I need to rent a car?

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For the wedding events we will provide shuttles on the day of from the hotels we have room blocks at. If you choose to stay somewhere else, we would recommend renting a car. If you fly into Boston or Providence there should be trains available to get you from the airports to Mystic. If you fly into Hartford, we would recommend renting a car as Ubers can be difficult to find. If you do rent a car, there is plenty of parking at Harkness Park for the ceremony. There is limited parking at The Engine Room (reception) but plenty of street spots in walking distance. If you're staying at The Whaler's Inn, you won't need to drive to the reception it's just a couple doors down.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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Yes, there will be shuttles to and from both hotels with room blocks to and from the reception and ceremony. Shuttle times will be provided at the hotels. If renting an airbnb, please reach out to the bride for more information on shuttles.