FAQs

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What is the dress code?

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The dress code is formal/black-tie optional. For men, this means a dark suit or tuxedo. For women, a floor length gown, cocktail dress, or Indian formal attire would be fabulous.

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Should I change outfits between ceremonies or before the reception?

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We do not suggest you change outfits between events unless you *really* love a good fashion transformation. We recommend you come dressed for the reception so you can relax and enjoy the events without having to worry about the logistics of your wardrobe.

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I've never been to a Malayali marriage ceremony. What can I expect?

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You may be familiar with Indian weddings where the priest officiates, the the bride wears a traditional red sari or lehenga, and the ceremony lasts an hour or more. This is not that. A Malayali wedding is a short South Indian ceremony. We look forward to sharing this special ceremony which hails from Kerala, India with you. It is comprised of a processional, the bride's father welcoming the groom, gifting of saris, and circling the altar. We will explain the different rituals during the event. You do not need to cover your head or take your shoes off for this ceremony.

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I've never been to a Western marriage ceremony. What can I expect?

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We will have a short non-denominational western ceremony comprised of a processional of the bridal party, a reading from an officiant, vows, exchanging of rings and a Celtic hand-fasting ritual. You do not need to cover your head or take off your shoes for this.

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Is the venue wheelchair accessible?

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Yes, Anthony's Pier 9 is wheelchair accessible.

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Will I have to pay for parking?

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No, parking is free and valet parking is available.

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Is there a shuttle to the venue?

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Yes! See our Travel page for more details.

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How do I know where to go once I get to the venue?

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There will be signs and staff assisting guests and facilitating guest movement throughout the day.

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Do you have a hotel block?

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Yes! Please see our Travel page for more details.

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I am flying in from another state/country. What is the best airport to fly into?

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Check out our Travel page for airport recommendations.

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Do I need to rent a car?

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The Hudson Valley is very spread out and suburban so we recommend renting a car for maximum flexibility and reliability. Uber, Lyft and cabs are available in the area but not always reliable - just ask Kieran.

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Is there a wedding hashtag?

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Yup! #NishaAndKieran

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Will there be food and alcohol?

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Yes to both.

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What if I have a food allergy?

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There will be meat, fish and vegetarian options available for dinner. If you have a special dietary need (ex: vegan, gluten-free, lactose-free, cilantro-free), please tell your server and we will accommodate you.

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Can I bring a guest?

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Your formal invitation will include all invited guests from your party. Still unsure? Email Nisha, Kieran or Padmini Prasad.

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How did you meet?

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We met at work, an academic non-profit named ITHAKA, where Nisha worked in the marketing department and Kieran worked in sales. We no longer work at the same company but still meet up for lunch or coffee nearly every day!

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Do you have a gift registry?

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We don't.

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What is the weather like in New York in August?

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August in New York is the final month of summer. It is generally warm and humid, with temperatures between 75°-85°F (24°-29°C). It is the Northeast US though, so rain is a possibility. We suggest checking the local weather report before packing.