FAQs

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What is the dress code?

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Let's dress up! The dress code will be Black Tie. Tuxes or formal black suits for gentlemen, and floor-length gowns or elegant formal attire for ladies (no short or mid-length dresses, please). We also encourage guests to follow our color palette [Deep Earth tone/Fall colors] when choosing outfits. Example photos are provided above for inspiration.

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Where will the celebrations take place?

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641 Main St, St Helena, CA 94574 Our ceremony & reception will be held at Brindare (formerly Tre Posti). Following the reception, we’ll continue the celebration with an after party onsite at Brindare. We’d love for you to stay, celebrate, and dance the night away with us.

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Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony, cocktail hour and reception will be hosted outdoors. The after party will be hosted indoors.

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Are you registered? Where?

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Your love, support, and presence on our wedding day mean the world to us and are truly the greatest gift we could ask for. For those who have asked about gifting, we would be so grateful for any contribution toward our honeymoon and house fund as we begin this next chapter together. Please visit the "Registry" tab for more details!

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Are kids welcomed?

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We love your little ones, but our wedding will be an adults-only celebration. We hope you can join us for a fun night off, and we appreciate your understanding as you plan ahead.

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Can I bring a guest?

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We're so excited to celebrate this special day surrounded by our closest family and friends. Only those formally invited on your wedding invitation can be accommodated. If you have a plus one, it will be noted on your invitation when you RSVP.

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How do you pronounce Affinito?

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Ah-fin-ee-toe, now say it fast and with an Italian accent, Affinito!

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Will there be transportation to and from hotels to the wedding?

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We have not booked transportation. Many of the hotel options are very close by. We suggest taking Uber or Lyft to the wedding. If you plan on driving, cars can be left safely overnight ;)