FAQs

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Is there a dress code?

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Our wedding attire is inspired by warm earth tones and Filipino elegance, blending natural textures with timeless tradition. For ladies, flowing dresses in our color palette are ideal. Alampays or boleros in coordinating tones may be worn for added elegance and layering. For gentlemen, traditional Barong Tagalog in classic ivory or soft natural hues is highly encouraged. If you don't have a Barong, guests may also opt for a formal suit.

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by March 20th.

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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OPTIONAL Post Wedding Brunch: For anyone who would like to join—and depending on how everyone is feeling (including the newlyweds!)—we’ll gather for a casual brunch at Napa Yard, followed by a stroll through downtown Napa and possibly a wine tasting or two. This will be a relaxed, pay-your-own-way outing. Please RSVP if you plan to attend. Details to come!

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Are you registered? Where?

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Having you celebrate with us means everything. In place of a traditional gift registry, we have created a cash fund to support our future together—whether it’s travel, our home, or the memories we’ll create as a family. Please go to the "registry" tab for more info. Thank you for your kindness, love, and for being part of our journey.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Arrive 30 minutes before the ceremony at 4:30 PM to allow time to find parking. Also, please note that our wedding is on a Friday during the height of rush hour traffic. We encourage our guests to leave early and avoid traffic.

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I have dietary restriction or food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes, please let us know if you have any dietary restrictions or food allergies when you RSVP.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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We have secured discounted wedding rates at the following hotels: Hampton Inn & Suites The Knoll Napa Best Western Inn & Suites at the Vines DoubleTree by Hilton Use the provided link to access the discounted rate. Book by March 31st.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, there is ample parking at Chardonnay Golf Club. Park by the tented venue.

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Can I Bring a Plus One?

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Due to limited space, we’re only able to accommodate plus ones for immediate family. We kindly ask that only the guests listed on your invitation attend. Thank you so much for understanding — we can’t wait to celebrate with you!

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Will the Ceremony and Reception be Indoors or Outdoors?

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The Ceremony will take place outdoors, weather permitting. The Reception will take place indoors, with access to outdoor space to enjoy lawn games, lounge seating and fire pit.

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Is there an Open Bar?

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Yes. Drinks are on us! Please drink responsibly… and dance irresponsibly. 💃🕺

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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We've hired an excellent photography staff to capture our day, and ask that you kindly keep your phones on silent and put away during the ceremony. You are more than welcome to take photos or post before or after the ceremony (just make sure to tag us and use #nested2026).