FAQs

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When and where is the wedding?

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We’re tying the knot on Sunday, October 26th, 2025 in Cary, North Carolina. Both the ceremony and reception will take place at our venue, The Upchurch at 7213 Roberts Rd, Cary, NC 27519. Our ceremony will be outdoors on the Magnolia Lawn (weather permitting). Our cocktail hour and reception will be indoors.

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What time should I arrive?

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Our ceremony will begin promptly at 5:00pm so we kindly request that you arrive 15-30 minutes early to ensure you don't miss anything. This will also give you time to park and find your seat.

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What is the dress code?

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Dress code is semi-formal/cocktail attire. Please no jeans or denim, and kindly avoid wearing shades of white. Our ceremony will take place outdoors on the Magnolia Lawn (weather permitting), so dress comfortably for grass and the season. Our cocktail hour and reception will be indoors.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, they will appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding!

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When do I need to RSVP by?

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Please RSVP no later than September 21st, 2025 by clicking the RSVP tab in the menu above. If you do not RSVP in time, we will assume that you are unable to attend and will be missed!

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Are kids welcome?

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We do love your little ones! However, we have decided to keep our wedding and reception an adults-only event with the exception of immediate family. We encourage you to use this evening as a date night!

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Can I take pictures on the day?

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We are having an unplugged ceremony, meaning that once the ceremony begins, we ask that all phones be put away and silenced. We want everyone to be fully present with us and for our photographers to be able to capture the best moments. You are more than welcome to take photos before and after the ceremony!

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the venue?

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We haven’t decided yet if transportation will be provided. We’ll update this page once we know for sure, so please check back closer to the wedding date.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes! Onsite parking is available in The Upchurch’s main lot, including handicap-accessible parking and a ramp. Cars left overnight must be picked up the following morning (Monday 10/27) by 10:00 a.m.