The Red Barn venue is a completely dry venue and the property owners have made this explicitly clear that there is to be no drugs or alcohol on the premises. So, NO you cannot bring alcohol into the bathrooms or go to your car to drink either.
If it is not written on the invitation, you cannot bring an additional person. As much as we would love to have everyone there we are limited in the amount of people we can accommodate at the wedding.
We will have children that are close to the bride and groom present at the wedding. But, if your children's names are not addressed on the invitation then unfortunately we are not able to accommodate them.