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September 22, 2018
Harpswell, ME

Deborah & Nanci

    We got married!
    FAQs

FAQs

If you have any additional questions other than what we've tried to answer here, please send us an email at nancianddebgetmarried@gmail.com.
Question

What if I do not eat lobster or chicken?

Answer

Please send us an email at nancianddebgetmarried@gmail.com. We would be happy to work out a vegetarian alternative with our caterer for you. We didn't offer one on the reply card because we honestly thought that mostly everyone would love to eat lobster. But we are happy to come up with something different for you.

Question

Will there be shuttle service to the Farm for the wedding from the hotel we are staying at?

Answer

If you chose a hotel we mentioned in the Room Block section, YES! We will update this site as we get closer to the day with useful instructions on riding the shuttle.

Question

I see you are registered for funds to remodel your kitchen. We really wanted to buy you a new set of dishes or a new lobster pot!

Answer

We are old. We have everything that a couple needs to outfit their kitchen, and we use all of these things regularly and replace them as needed. What we really need are cabinets that are low enough for Nanci to reach, a stove that doesn't have to be lit by hand, and enough room to prepare delicious meals when nice folks like you stop in to visit. So please help us out with our kitchen remodeling project, and please plan a time in 2020 to come over for dinner! Thanks!

Question

What should I wear to your wedding?

Answer

The average temperature in Harpswell Maine in September is a high of 70 and a low of 50 degrees. Please do not wear a tuxedo or a ballgown; this wedding is "dressy casual". You may want to avoid slender heels, gals, as the wedding venue is covered with lawn and with uneven barn wood floor. Please bring a layer for the cooler temps; this may be your suit jacket, a sweater, or handknit poncho. Up to you. Probably best to avoid wearing jeans or sneakers.

Question

How do you eat a lobster?

Answer

Maybe you'd like to watch this video before you arrive at our wedding! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oWtY4-xDI4E

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