Please check our "Travel" tab! We have included numerous ways to get to Montauk from various locations. Please do not hesitate to reach out to us to ask questions, we know planning travel can be complicated and would love to help!
This will be a causal chance to spend time together after the wedding. There will be food and, weather permitting, a possible pool party! If you plan to come and do not have a car, please let us know and we can try to arrange a car pool. You can also take the LIRR or Jitney from Montauk to Amagansett.
The dress code is Cocktail Attire. Wear something festive that you want to party in, suits are not required. The ceremony will be on a rocky beach, so if you want to wear heels, we recommend a chunky heel or platform.
We love your kids so much but this will be a child-free wedding. They are welcome to come to the Friday or Sunday events. Please let us know if you need any help arranging for childcare!
The hora is a highly energetic Jewish circle dance, and guests are supposed to put as much vigor and enthusiasm into it as they would on their own wedding day. Danced to klezmer music, it’s usually the part of the wedding where you’ll see the happy couple lifted on chairs. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pGTho2a9t9k