FAQs

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What is the theme and dress code?

Answer

The theme is Gothic Romance Deco with black and burgundy red as colours. This is black-tie preferred. The dress code is not gendered. *Best suit or a formal dinner suit is fine. Tuxes are not required! Cufflinks, shirt studs, bow-ties, neck ties are great accessories. *Floor or knee-length formal/evening gown wear, ball gowns, formal cocktail dresses, elegant suits, and dressy slacks/blouses are also acceptable. *Kilts are acceptable so long as they are wedding-appropriate with a formal jacket and vest. *Friendly reminder that this is winter in the Midwest, so don't forget to bring a coat or jacket with you just in case! ;-) If you have questions please reach out! Here is also a link to a good breakdown if you are curious about black-tie attire! https://www.theknot.com/content/what-to-wear-black-tie

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I can't make it! Can I still watch the ceremony?

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Yes! We will be having a live stream of the ceremony! We know there's a bunch of you who live out of state or out of the country, space issues for our venue, or life happens, and we want you all to be able to share this amazing day with us! We will update this website with the links on its own page and I will also make a facebook post providing the link! However, if you are RSVPing a YES and an emergency happens please let one of us know as soon as you can!

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Parking?

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The Barnett has its own private, gated lot that will have active security for the duration of the night! You can find the parking lot by typing in the Barnett's address and staff will have signs out the night of for easy directions!

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Is there wheelchair access?

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Yes! If you require assistance please be sure to give the Barnett a call just before you arrive so that they can meet with you and assist!