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September 23, 2018
Oceanside, California
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Erica & Michael

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The Wedding Website of Erica Ruffolo and Michael Mortenson
If you have any other questions that are not answered here, please feel free to reach out to either of us and we will gladly answer them for you!
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Can I bring my kids to the wedding?

Answer

While we love to watch the children run and play, this is (mostly) an adults only kind of day. Due to budget and size restraints, we have to limit the number of children who can attend. If you have any questions, please feel free to reach out to either Mike or Erica!

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Can I bring a date?

Answer

Oh la la. In order to keep our guest list on track we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. Please feel free to e-mail or call us with any questions!

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What is the attire for the day?

Answer

Stay Classy San Diego.

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Can I wear white to your wedding?

Answer

Only if you don't want to actually be allowed in to join the fun, then yeah, sure.

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Any other special attire notes we should know?

Answer

Temperatures tend to dip a bit at night, and since the cocktail hour will be outside you might want to bring a jacket or wrap. However there will also be heaters to help keep guests warm.

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Can we take pictures?

Answer

We love for people to take pictures and please do take as many as you'd like! However, we ask for you to be aware of your surroundings (especially during the ceremony) so that the professional photographers who are hired to shoot the wedding, are not having to work around the guests or have unintended photobombs. Also, the reception will have a photobooth where people can take wild and wacky photos with props. Finally, there will be a link from the photographer that will be emailed out to all guests who have given us their email address and they can download any and all photos.

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Will there be dancing?

Answer

Um, is there a sun and moon? Of course we will have dancing. We have arranged for a DJ that will help you dance your tush off. This ain’t no Footloose.

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Will there be food and drinks served?

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Oh yes there will! We will have passed appetizers, an open bar, as well as a buffet style dinner, and cupcakes! Our main mission is to make you stuffed (and drunk!)

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What time should we be there?

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We are going to get hitched starting at 5:00 p.m with a cocktail hour and dinner following afterwards. We kindly ask guests to arrive no more than 60 minutes prior to the ceremony as the grounds will not be open for guests until then.

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When are the RSVP's due?

Answer

We’d love to know if you can make it (and we hope you can!). Please RSVP no later than August 31 by clicking on the "Save Me A Seat!" link and filling out the requested information.

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