FAQs

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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January 10, 2026. We need to finalize details so no RSVP by here and you'll have to call in with someone who did <3

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Can I bring a plus one?

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When you go to RSVP, if there is a name or "guest" under your name (or multiples were written on the invitation) then you have a guest. If there isn't, then sorry you are flying solo! Weddings are expensive so unfortunately we had to restrict plus ones -- plus no one really wants a first date at a wedding :)

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Are kids allowed?

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While we love little ones, we are keeping this event "adults only". We have limited numbers, there will be alcohol flowing, and the music may not be little-one appropriate (our own little one won't be going). We are organizing caretakers, so if you have a kid(s) and want to coordinate, please reach out to Mikayla!

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What's the vibe?/What should I wear?

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The overall theme of the wedding is "La Dolce Vita" (the sweet life). Guests are requested to wear cocktail attire. This is mid to long dresses and open jackets (pant suites and jumpers also work!) Colours to avoid: pistachio and tan (bridal group) and white (obvious reasons). The overall vibe is celebrating love -- emphasis on celebrating, i.e. party. So be ready to do so, whether that means getting a stretch in or a pair of flats!

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Is the venue indoors or outdoors?

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A mix! The ceremony is outdoors (grass and weather permitting) and the reception is indoors.

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony will take place at 4 pm. We recommend you arrive at 3:45 pm to make sure you're on time.

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Do you have a hotel block?

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Yes! We have a discount code for Hyatt Regency Monterey and Carmel Mission Inn. Other locations/recommendations on the Travel tab.

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Will you provide transport?

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Unfortunately, no as there is not one exact place we are all staying at. There is ride-share but we highly recommend getting a car in general!

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Will there be a bar?

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Yes! We have an open premium bar available, starting during cocktail hour and up to 30 minutes before we call it a night!

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Fraser?

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We will be changing our surnames to Fraser to honour Mackenzie's heritage and clan. (Our little one beat us to it!) But we kept our names the same on everything so far to not confuse those who know us with our current full names :)