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What should we wear to the wedding?What should we wear to the wedding?

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Your comfort is important to us. Semi-formal or cocktail attire is preferred, and since San Francisco tends to stay cool in May—typically 55–65°—we recommend an extra layer for the evening. Out of respect for the couple, please avoid wearing white.

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Can I bring an extra guest?Can I bring an extra guest?

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As much as we would love to include everyone, our venue’s limited capacity allows us to host only those formally invited. We warmly welcome all to join us later for a nightcap at the Tonga Room in the Fairmont Hotel—the more the merrier.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Absolutely! You can find our suggested accommodations under the Hotels tab.

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When should I RSVP by?When should I RSVP by?

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The RSVP tab is now open! Please RSVP by April 20, 2026. Formal invitations with RSVP instructions will also be mailed out soon. In the meantime, feel free to RSVP directly here through our website: www.foreverdonko.com Or text the bride and groom—your early reply is greatly appreciated! Michelle 626.202.2249 Tom 626.425.7416

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Where is the ceremony held?Where is the ceremony held?

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Our ceremony will take place at the iconic San Francisco City Hall, on the beautiful Mayor’s Balcony (Second Floor).

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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

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Kindly plan to arrive at San Francisco City Hall between 9:30 and 9:45 a.m. to allow time for parking and security. Guests will be seated prior to the ceremony, which will begin promptly at 10:00 a.m.

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Will the ceremony start on time?Will the ceremony start on time?

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Yes. City Hall ceremonies run on a strict schedule, so we kindly ask guests to arrive early to allow enough time for parking, security screening, and taking the elevators to the second floor (Mayor’s Balcony).

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Is transportation provided between events?Is transportation provided between events?

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Transportation is not provided. All venues are within central San Francisco and are easily accessible by rideshare. Fairmont Hotel/InterContinental Hotel - The View Lounge (1.1 mile) Fairmont Hotel/InterContinental Hotel - City Hall (1.4 mile) Fairmont Hotel/InterContinental - The Cavalier (1.2 mile)

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Which airport should I fly into?Which airport should I fly into?

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San Francisco International Airport (SFO) is the closest major airport.

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Is parking available at the San Francisco City Hall?Is parking available at the San Francisco City Hall?

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Limited metered street parking is available nearby. The Civic Center Garage (355 McAllister Street) is the closest parking option. The Performing Arts Garage (360 Grove Street) is another option. Guests may also consider taking an Uber or Waymo to City Hall. Our listed hotels are approximately one mile away from City Hall.

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Why did you choose San Francisco City Hall?Why did you choose San Francisco City Hall?

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We fell in love with the elegance and history of San Francisco City Hall, and the Mayor's Balcony offers one of the most beautiful and intimate ceremony spaces in the city.

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Can we take photos during the ceremony?Can we take photos during the ceremony?

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As our wedding is very intimate, we kindly ask guests to remain “unplugged” during the ceremony so our photographer can fully capture this special moment. After the ceremony, there will be time for guests to take photos with the happy couple.

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What if I can't attend?What if I can't attend?

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We will miss you! Please RSVP no on the website so we can finalize our guest count.

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Will food and drinks be served?Will food and drinks be served?

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Yes! The reception will include cocktails, dinner, and toasts.

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What is the Tonga Room after-party?What is the Tonga Room after-party?

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Since we will not be having a traditional wedding reception, we thought it would be fun to continue the celebration with late-night dancing and tropical drinks. After the reception dinner, anyone who would like to keep the festivities going is warmly invited to join us for late-night fun at one of San Francisco’s most iconic tiki bars: Tonga Room & Hurricane Bar Fairmont San Francisco 8:30 PM until closing Enjoy tropical drinks, live music, and a little bit of island magic. 🌺🍹💃 Everyone is welcome to stop by, relax, and celebrate with us!

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Where should we meet once inside City Hall?Where should we meet once inside City Hall?

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Once inside, please make your way to the Mayor's Balcony on the 2nd Floor. Signs and elevators will help guide you.

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Do I need to attend every event?Do I need to attend every event?

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Not at all! Come to whichever events work for your schedule. We're just excited to celebrate with you however you can join us.

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Can guests explore City Hall after the ceremony?Can guests explore City Hall after the ceremony?

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Absolutely! San Francisco City Hall is one of the most beautiful and iconic buildings in San Francisco—and in the United States—and guests are welcome to explore and take photos throughout the building. You will also likely see other couples celebrating their weddings, which adds to the joyful and festive atmosphere of the day.

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Do we need reservations for Tonga Room?Do we need reservations for Tonga Room?

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No reservations are required—we will simply gather there for anyone who would like to continue celebrating. However, guests who would prefer a table or seating will need to make a reservation directly with the venue. Otherwise, you can find us at the main bar and on the dance floor. Tonga Room & Hurricane Bar (in the basement) Fairmont Hotel Address: 950 Mason St San Francisco, CA 94108 Phone: (415) 772-5278

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Is the after-party optional?Is the after-party optional?

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Yes! The after-party is completely optional and just for fun.

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Why such an early ceremony?Why such an early ceremony?

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Morning ceremonies at San Francisco City Hall tend to be a bit quieter. Since it is a public building, it is open to everyone—including tourists, photographers, and other couples celebrating their weddings. We also loved the idea of beginning the day surrounded by the beauty and grandeur of the building, and then continuing the celebration later into the evening.

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What does the rest of your wedding day look like?What does the rest of your wedding day look like?

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After the ceremony and photos, we'll spend the afternoon celebrating privately before rejoining everyone for the evening reception and festivities.