Well the answer is we don't know yet, we honestly have made a pro/con list for both options but we would like to make that decision when we can actually be in the same physical space, so that we can talk, pray and figure it out together. But either way we will have to live apart for at least a year or two during the immigration process, which will be sad but totally worth it in the end!
Short answer? No. We are doing a small ceremony and luncheon with family and Zooming in anyone who wants to be involved (Please RSVP!) We are doing the ceremony in the morning because that's when my body functions at its best. While I would have loved to have a reception and see and hug everyone, even without COVID19 it wouldn't have been feasible with my health, so this shorter and virtual option actually might work really well for me.
Currently we are trying to figure out the best way to travel with my health concerns but we are planning on going to Canada together for a few weeks!