To help us with our planning, please RSVP as soon as possible. However, we kindly ask that you submit an RSVP by October 29, 2025. If you have any concerns regarding the deadline, please contact us directly.
On Friday night, the welcome cocktail will include two complementary cocktails and small bites. Additional drinks will be available for purchase. Feel free to have dinner before hand with loved ones. Take a look at our recommendations under the 'Things to Do' tab. On Saturday, prior to the ceremony, there will be a selection of canapés and drinks. The wedding meal will be family style (like your favorite dinner party), offering a variety of delicious appetizers, mains, and accompaniments, including seafood, meat, and poultry. If you have specific dietary restrictions/allergies, please add this information when you RSVP. Do not worry about drinks, they are on us, i.e., open bar. Dessert and late-night snacks will also be served.
The theme of the welcome cocktail is Desert Bloom. This is inspired by the bright and colorful architecture and botanicals found throughout Oaxaca's landscapes. Think yellows, pinks, blues, greens, etc. Please wear cocktail attire, including but not limited to light or bright casual suits/separates, button downs, non-denim pants, cocktail/midi dresses, jumpsuits, blouses, etc. Click this link for outfit inspiration: https://pin.it/4DX16pFUg
The requested attire is formal/black-tie optional. Gentlemen, show us how well you clean up! Please wear a tuxedo or dark suit (e.g., black, dark gray, navy, olive green), dress shirt, tie/bow tie, and dress shoes. This does NOT include jeans, chinos, athletic clothing, or sneakers. Ladies, please wear elegant evening attire, including a long or floor-length gown, midi dress, or separates. Wear the color that makes you feel best, except for white of course! Note, the streets and flooring are rocky and made of cobble stone, so please wear comfortable shoes.
Kindly note that due to limited space, we are unable to accommodate additional guests. The invitation is extended only to those named on the invitation. We appreciate your understanding and look forward to celebrating with you.
We kindly ask that all guests, including our dads... refrain from using cell phones, cameras, or any other devices during the ceremony. We want everyone to be fully present with us! Our photographers will capture all the special moments, and we cannot wait to share them with you afterwards.