We kindly ask that our guests follow a black tie dress code to the best of their ability. We encourage men to wear suits or dress pants and ladies to wear full length dresses. Thank you so much!
Although this is an evening geared more for adults and "big kids", we want you to do whatever is easiest for you. There is a pool where we will be having the reception, so please, keep your child's safety in mind. Thank you!
Yes, we will have dinner and beverages for you.
Please, RSVP as soon as you can. It makes it way easier for us to plan. The deadline to RSVP is September 1st, 2026.
The wedding is outdoor. We anticipate perfectly comfortable weather, however most likely warmer than cooler. There will be mingling through the mansion during cocktail hour.
Our venue has a mandatory requirement that we employ a valet service. Our venue is an old Tulsa mansion that is located in a mostly residential area, so they are incredibly strict on blocking any driveways or causing disturbance to the neighborhood. The valet service is able to park your vehicles at a nearby parking lot that our venue has access to use.