Please kindly RSVP by April 25th, 2026. You can RSVP by clicking the "RSVP" link in the main menu above.
We are so thankful you will be joining us for this celebration of our love. While gifts are not expected, we have a registry for those who wish to contribute to items for our newlywed home. We are registered at Crate & Barrel and on Zola. Please click on the Registry link in the top banner to view registry items.
Please arrive at the ceremony by 3:30 pm so the ceremony can start promptly at 4:00 pm.
The dress code for our wedding day events is Black Tie Optional. For men, please wear dark colored suits with ties or tuxedos. For women, please wear floor length dresses. All wedding day events will be held outside and partially on grass. Ladies, wedges or block heels may be most comfortable on grass. Please note that the weather in Temecula at this time of year is very warm during the day (high 80s and 90s), but will cool off some at night.
Unfortunately, we have a strict guest list and our celebration is strictly RSVP only. We will only be able to accommodate those listed on your wedding invitation.
While we love your kids, our wedding celebration will be adults only. Thank you for understanding!
Yes, we have a block of hotel rooms reserved at SpringHill Suites Temecula for Friday, May 29th and Saturday, May 30th. To make a reservation under our hotel block, please call (951) 699-4477 and press 0 to speak with a representative at the property. When calling, you must mention the group name, Starnes Stradal Wedding, to ensure you receive the correct rate and are booked under our block. Please note, you must book both nights to be included in the group pricing. We also recommend Temecula Creek Inn for those looking for a different option.
Yes, please let us know in advance if you have a food allergy.
Yes, there is limited self-parking available at the residence in the driveway or on the street.
Yes! One charter bus and one passenger van will pick up guests from the SpringHill Suites Temecula and bring guests to our wedding venue. The bus and van will depart the SpringHill Suites Temecula promptly at 3:00pm. Please ensure you are ready and seated on the bus and van on time. Thank you! We will have two charter bus trips back from the ceremony to the SpringHill Suites Temecula. The first shuttle will depart the wedding venue at 10:45pm and the second will depart at the end of night at 11:45pm. We encourage you to use the provided bus back home as there may be longer waits for Ubers and Lyfts.
Please join us for a Welcome Party on Friday, May 29th, at Akash Winery from 6:30 pm to 9:30 pm. All are welcome! Please RSVP so we can ensure there is enough food and drinks for everyone. On Saturday, May 30th, please arrive at our venue, 39647 Patagonia Court, by 3:30 pm. The Ceremony will begin promptly at 4:00 pm, followed by a Cocktail Hour. Dinner will served at 6:00 pm, followed by music and dancing, and a Silent Disco After Party from 10:00 pm to 11:30 pm.