No one loves kids more than Matthew and Melissa. But let's make it an adults-only night.
If you choose to drive, there is parking outside the Gull Lake Center which is were the reception will be held and is a short walk to the ceremony location (Main Lodge - lake side staircase). There will be shuttles from/to the offsite hotels and Grandview Lodge provides a shuttle service for all Grandview properties.
Black tie optional means you can wear long gowns and tuxes but it is not required. Suits, sport coats and slacks, and cocktail dresses are also perfectly acceptable. The ceremony will be held outside so please bring something warm in case the weather is Minnesota crisp!