FAQs

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When and How can you RSVP?

Answer

We have finalized all of the details and happy to announce that RSVP's are now open! You can RSVP on this website, or by reaching out to Melissa at 707-367-8307. If you are having trouble on the website just call one of us and we will get you on the master list at the house. Thanks!

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What the heck! We want to go to the ceremony. What gives?

Answer

The Botanical Gardens are very strict with guest allowance when you get eloped there. While we would love to hold a big event there, it is simply not in the cards. Because of that, we are saving the limited spots for immediate family. What we will have is a bunch of great pictures in an amazing setting to share with all our family and friends!

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Are you receiving gifts?

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Nope! We have had our little family unit established for a while now and don't need anything to get us going like a normal newlywed couple. We thank everyone with the gift of their presence and ask only they help us make lasting memories!

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We want to help! What can we do?

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Life certainly takes a village and we would love your help! Melissa will be holding some fun evenings for prep, including crafting and flower arrangements. We will also be recruiting some family for setup and breakdown. If you want to assist or join us on anything, let us know! Current list is below, thank you everyone! Currently, we are looking for assistance with the following: Table and chair setup at Red Gate (8/7) Flower cutting & arranging party (8/6-8/7)? Assist with returning tables and chairs to rental company. (8/10)