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October 10, 2020
San diego, California
#BergerMelDone

Melanie & Harris

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FAQs

If you have any other questions other than what we’ve listed here, please reach out to Melanie at mel.weisman@gmail.com!
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ARE KIDS INVITED?

Answer

We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! Leave the kiddos at home.

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IS THERE A SHUTTLE TO AND FROM THE HOTEL TO THE CEREMONY?

Answer

Since the Prado at Balboa Park is so centrally located (just 2 miles from the Carte Hotel), we will not be providing transportation to the venue. We recommend using rideshare services like Lyft and Uber!

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CAN I BRING A DATE?

Answer

If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.

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WHAT’S THE DRESS CODE?

Answer

Black Tie Optional, please. This means men can wear a tuxedo, but it’s not a requirement. If men go tuxedo-less, wear a formal dark suit and tie instead. Women can go the long evening gown route, but a dressy suit or shorter cocktail dress is fine too.

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