FAQs

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When and where is the wedding?

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Both the ceremony and reception will take place at Spring Mill Manor, located at 171 Jacksonville Road, Ivyland, PA 18974. Our ceremony will begin promptly at 6:00 PM on Friday, June 19, 2026. If you happen to arrive after the ceremony has started, there is no need to call or notify the bride or groom. Venue staff will graciously escort you to a separate area once the ceremony has concluded.

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Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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Our ceremony will be held outdoors, weather permitting. We will provide accommodations to keep guests comfortable in the summer heat, including refreshments and cooling measures. In the event of inclement weather, event staff will guide guests indoors for an indoor ceremony. The cocktail hour and reception will be held indoors. For those wearing heels, please note that there is very little grass, if any, and the outdoor walkways are fully paved.

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Is there parking available near the wedding venue?

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Yes. For guests driving to the venue, free on-site parking is available in a large parking lot at Spring Mill Manor. Guests are welcome to leave their vehicles overnight if they choose to take a taxi or ride-share home after the celebration.

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How do I RSVP?

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Please RSVP by scanning the QR code provided on your invitation. The QR code will take you directly to our wedding website where you can submit your response. If you’re unfamiliar with using a QR code, follow these easy steps: Open the camera app on your smartphone. Point your camera at the QR code on the invitation. A link will appear on your screen—tap it. You’ll be taken to our wedding website’s RSVP page. Enter your name, dinner selection and submit your response. If you are unable to RSVP using the QR code, please email angiedunston@gmail.com with your name, dinner selection and attendance confirmation.

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What date should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by Friday May 08, 2026. Responses received after this date cannot be guaranteed accommodation.

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What is the dress code?

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The dress code is formal wear, and we kindly ask that guests wear ALL BLACK attire (e.g., tuxedos or dark formal suits; floor-length gowns, cocktail-length formal dresses, or elegant formal separates). NO SNEAKERS

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Can I bring a plus-one?

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No, unless your invitation specifically indicates a plus-one. Due to assigned seating and a plated meal service, we are only able to accommodate guests whose names are listed on the invitation. Unfortunately, we are unable to make last-minute additions.

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Are there children allowed at the wedding?

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No. We kindly request that this be an adults-only celebration.

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What accommodations are available?

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We have secured room blocks at two nearby hotels for our guests. Hotel details, including reservation links and block codes, can be found on the Travel page of our wedding website. For your convenience, shuttle service will be provided to and from the hotels and the venue. Additional shuttle details will be shared closer to the wedding date. Both the ceremony and reception spaces are fully wheelchair accessible.

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What should I do if I don't make it into the room block?

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The room block ends on May 18, 2026. If you miss the deadline to reserve a room in our block, reach out to the hotel and mention our wedding anyway, they may be able to accommodate you with our discount in a room outside of our block. If not, you can find additional nearby accommodations on our travel page.

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Will transportation be provided?

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If you are staying at or departing from either hotel within our wedding room block, private shuttle service will be provided beginning at 5:00 PM and will run through midnight, transporting guests to and from the venue. Shuttles will be clearly labeled “Pender Wedding Shuttle.” Shuttle will also remain on standby at the venue throughout the evening for any guests who wish to return to the hotel before the reception concludes.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes. There will be an open bar available for guests to enjoy throughout cocktail hour and the reception. While gratuity is not required, we do recommend bringing cash if you wish to tip the bartenders.

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Will there be meal options for guests with dietary restrictions or allergies?

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Yes. We will offer an entrée option that is vegetarian, vegan, gluten-free, and nut-free to accommodate guests with dietary restrictions. During cocktail hour, appetizers will be clearly labeled to indicate allergy-friendly options, and there will be multiple selections available. If you have dietary needs beyond those listed above, please note them in the designated section of your digital RSVP. Our goal is to ensure all guests feel comfortable and well fed throughout the celebration.

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Where are you registered for gifts?

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We have a small registry available on our wedding website for those who wish to give a gift. As we do not require many physical items, a monetary gift or contribution to our honeymoon fund would be sincerely appreciated. A link to our honeymoon fund can be found on our wedding website under the “Registry” tab.

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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Yes, guests are welcome to take photos. We kindly ask that you remain seated and avoid standing in the aisles. Please be mindful that we have a professional photographer and videographer capturing our ceremony, and we want to ensure they are able to get their shots without obstruction. Thank you for being present and helping us preserve this moment beautifully.

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Is it okay to post wedding photos on social media?

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Yes! We would love for you to share and post photos from our celebration. Please be sure to tag the bride and groom so we can relive all the fun moments with you.

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Do you have a wedding hashtag?

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Yes! Our wedding hashtag is #MeetThePenders. It'll also be posted around the venue for your convenience.

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Where will wedding updates be posted?

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Additional updates or changes that need your attention will appear on our wedding website homepage.