All are welcome to the wedding ceremony, so you do not need to RSVP to attend.
We love your kids, we really do! However we want you to take the night off, so we are requesting an adult only reception through invite only. Please make prior accommodations for children from the ages of 2--17 years old, with the exception of immediate family and wedding party attendees. Everyone must RSVP through invite only.
Due to limited numbers, if your invitation invites you to bring a "plus one", then yes (please make sure you both RSVP). If not, then we would prefer if it was just you.
Black tie optional. If your heels are too high, just kick them off, sis!