FAQs

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How do I RSVP?

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You can RSVP via our wedding website. Simply click on the RSVP tab, enter your name, and indicate your attendance. We kindly ask that you RSVP by 9/21/2026.

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony starts at 3:00 PM. We ask you arrive by 2:30 PM to allow time for parking and getting settled, since the ceremony site is a short walk or golf cart ride from the parking lot.

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Are kids welcome?

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No. We love your little ones, but we've decided to keep our wedding adults-only, with the exception of immediate family the Bride and Groom have already contacted. If you're unsure whether this applies to you, feel free to reach out to us directly.

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Can I bring a plus-one?

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Please check your invitation, it will indicate if you have a plus-one.

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What's the dress code?

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Cocktail attire. Think dressy, but you don't need a full ball gown or tux. The venue is outdoors with natural terrain. We'll have heaters set up since it can get chilly once the sun goes down, so bring a jacket or wrap just in case. And yes, Minnesotans, it does get chilly in San Diego too! Hah!

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Will the ceremony and reception be outdoors?

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Yes, the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will be outdoors. Please dress accordingly.

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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We're having an unplugged ceremony, so we ask that you keep phones and cameras put away while we say "I do." After the ceremony, you're more than welcome, and encouraged, to snap away!

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What time does the reception end?

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The reception ends at 10:00 PM. Please plan to be off the grounds by no later than 10:30 PM!

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How do I get to and from the venue?

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Rancho Guejito Vineyard is out in San Pasqual Valley, where rideshares like Uber and Lyft are unreliable, especially at night. Please don't plan on getting one. Arrange a responsible driver in advance, whether that's a designated driver, carpool, or pre-booked car service, so everyone gets home safely.

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Is there parking at the venue?

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Yes, there is ample parking. Golf Carts will be provided from the parking lot to the ceremony area for those who need it.

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Where should I stay?

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We've put together a few hotel recommendations near the venue, see the "Where to stay" section of this site.

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Will you be serving alcohol?

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Yes! We'll have a curated wine menu featuring our favorites from the vineyard itself, along with beer and two specialty cocktails handpicked by Mckenzie and Joey.

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Can I bring my gift to the wedding?

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Yes! There will be a designated gift and card table at the wedding for anyone who'd like to bring something in person.

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Will there be dancing?

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Oh, 1000%. The bride and groom plan to dance the night away, and your presence on the dance floor is required. We'll have a DJ keeping the floor packed all night, so leave your shyness at the door and bring your best moves (or your worst, we don't judge). Be prepared for the dance party of a lifetime. ;)

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Who do I contact with questions?

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Please reach out to Mckenzie: (619) 244-7199 or Joey: (651) 895-9295. Thank you :)