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Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. If you’re no longer able to attend, we completely understand. You can update your RSVP anytime on our site, and we wish you health and safety during this difficult time.
Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. If you’re no longer able to attend, we completely understand. You can update your RSVP anytime on our site, and we wish you health and safety during this difficult time.
May 14, 2021
Fallbrook, CA

Christina & Benjamin

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When should I arrive?

Answer

Please arrive between 3:30-4:00pm! There will be a welcome champagne for you to enjoy as you wait to be seated.

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

April 12th please!!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

Answer

Yes, please let us know when you RSVP!!!

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

Semi-formal/cocktail attire. A cocktail dress is generally your best bet for women and slacks and a button-down shirt and tie for men. This is an outdoor ceremony and reception going into evening time, but will have space heaters if needed. Please check the weather the days leading up to the event and plan accordingly!

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Can I write a check as my gift?

Answer

Sure! But please write to either "Christina Uplinger" OR "Benjamin West". Please do not put both of our names on the check, and please use Christina's maiden last name. Thank you!

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Are kids welcome?

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No, but please contact the bride or groom if you have concerns regarding this issue.

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Can I bring a date?

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No, unless you are married or in an ongoing relationship, we ask no plus ones. Guest list is limited to who the invites are addressed to.

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Will there be alcohol?

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Yes, we will have a hosted bar, but we ask that guests be respectful of others, and plan for a taxi/ cab/ designated sober driver if you plan to drink!!

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Is there parking for the ceremony and reception?

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Yes! Grand Tradition also graciously allows guests to leave their cars overnight as well, in the case you need to have a taxi or Uber take you to your home or hotel.

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Are there any accommodations for those who are handicap?

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Yes! There will be available a golf cart transport for our friends and family who have difficulty walking or get tired easily. The path to the ceremony is a moderate length and the staging area for the ceremony will have a couple of tables and benches.

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Is there going to be a Grand Exit?

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Yes! After dinner and cake and some dancing, and once 9:00 pm rolls around, we will be having a grand exit you don't want to miss!

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Can I make a song request?

Answer

Yes! Please visit http://dancingdjproductionsplanning.com/requests.asp?djidnumber=16866 and enter in the event date and password: u46rkai

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