We love your kids- we really do! But we want our wedding to be your night off. If you need help finding a babysitter please let us know- we will have a list of reliable babysitters ready to go.
If your invitation says "and Guest," then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
Semi- formal, please. Tuxedos and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses.