FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Kindly RSVP by September 3rd to let us know if you’ll be joining us on our special day!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Gates will open for guest arrival at 3:15 PM through the main entrance.

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Is there a dress code?

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Our dress code is black cocktail attire—think semi-formal and elegant in classic black. Dresses, jumpsuits, suits, or separates in black are all welcome, and feel free to wear sneakers for comfort and style. And if you know Kelli well, you know she’s all about the shoes! We can’t wait to see you dressed to celebrate!

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Are kids welcome?

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Children are welcome to join us only if they have been specifically invited. We appreciate your understanding as we keep the celebration focused on our closest family and friends.

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Can I bring a date?

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Please note that due to limited space, guests may only bring a date if they have been specifically invited to do so. We appreciate your understanding and look forward to celebrating with you!

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, there is street parking available and a parking garage located just across the street from the venue. Keep in mind that your accommodation may also offer parking, and Lancaster is a very walkable city—making it easy to explore and get around!

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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Join us the night before the wedding—Saturday, October 18 at 6 PM—for a relaxed, casual, and fun evening! The venue features a full-service restaurant and bar with a menu full of crowd-pleasing bites, shareable plates, themed cocktails, and local brews on tap. Enjoy over 40 retro arcade games (like Frogger, Ms. Pac-Man, and Skeeball), or hit the six-lane boutique bowling alley—first come, first served. We can’t wait to see our friends and family there!

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Who’s ready to keep the party going?

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Just steps from the wedding venue, at BERT AND THE ELEPHANT we’re hosting an after-party for anyone not ready to call it a night! Join us from 10:00 PM to 1:00 AM for late-night bites and a cash bar — we can’t wait to celebrate with you a little longer!