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Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. As always, your health and safety are our top priority, and we completely understand if you’re no longer able to attend. Please just let us know as soon as possible.
Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. As always, your health and safety are our top priority, and we completely understand if you’re no longer able to attend. Please just let us know as soon as possible.
April 3, 2021
Charlotte, NC
#MyOneAndOakley

Nicki & Matthew

    Our Wedding Day
    Frequently Asked Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

Question

Will there be precautions taken for Covid and what are the rules and restrictions?

Answer

As of Feb. 15th, there are no restrictions in place set forth by the venue. All club attendants will be masked as they are interacting with our guests. Guests will not be required to wear a mask but are certainly free to wear one should they feel more comfortable. As a courtesy, we will be providing masks at the front entrance as well as personal hand sanitizer.

Question

Do I have to mail back my RSVP or can I RSVP online?

Answer

Please return your RSVP by mail with the stamped/pre-addressed envelope.

Question

When should I have my RSVP in by?

Answer

Deadline for RSVPs is March 6

Question

What is the attire/dress code?

Answer

Our wedding is a formal, black tie optional event. (Tuxedo, Dark Suit and Tie, Evening gowns/dresses)

Question

Can I bring my children?

Answer

As much as we love your little ones, in order to allow all guests, including parents, an evening of fun and relaxation, we have chosen for our wedding day to be an adults only occasion. We hope this advance notice means you are still able to share our big day and will enjoy having the evening off!

Question

Will the ceremony be held outdoors or indoors?

Answer

Weather permitted, the ceremony will be held outdoors. The reception will be held indoors.

Question

How far is the hotel to the venue?

Answer

The reserved hotel is less than 1 mile away from the venue and there is an abundant amount of parking at the venue.

Question

What time should I arrive?

Answer

The wedding and seating of the family will begin at 5:30pm sharp. Please plan to arrive between 5:00pm - 5:15pm so you can take your seat.

Question

What type of food will be served?

Answer

There will be a variety of food stations to choose from including meats, vegetables, pasta and more!

Question

Can I take pictures and/or post photos of your wedding on social media?

Answer

We respectfully request that no phones or cameras be used during the ceremony however, please feel free to take as many as you would like during the cocktail hour and reception. There will even be a photobooth for your entertainment! And dont forget our hashtag for social media posts! #MyOneandOakley

Question

 What time is the reception scheduled to end?

Answer

11:00pm

Question

Is there someone I can contact if I have any other questions about the wedding?

Answer

Please contact: Sylvia Warren: 704-351-2693 Jennifer Mabe: 336-210-7426 Jackie Smollett: 704-904-5620

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