FAQs
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Can I bring a date?
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All invitations were addressed to our invitees, including your plus one if you received one. If you did not see an additional name on your invitation, we unfortunately were unable to give you a plus one.
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Are kids welcome?
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Although we really love your kiddos, we regretfully cannot accommodate everyone’s children at our wedding. Unless their name is stated on the invitation, they are not invited. We hope that you will see this as an opportunity to let your hair down and enjoy the celebration with us!
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by July 1st, 2025.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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If you are being shuttled, you will arrive at the perfect time for the ceremony. If you are driving or a local guest without a golf cart, we will have golf cart shuttles taking guests to Hole 15 starting at 3:45pm. We recommend arriving no later than 4pm to give yourself plenty of time to get to the ceremony location. The last golf cart shuttle will depart at 4:20pm. The ceremony will start promptly at 4:30pm. If you're a member and have a golf cart up at Del Mar, please give yourself plenty of time to get out to the ceremony location and be seated by 4:25pm. The ceremony will start promptly at 4:30pm.
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Is there a dress code?
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The dress code is semi-formal. Please see link to attire vibe here - tinyurl.com/maryandstephenwedding *Please note you will be walking in grass. Bring or wear appropriate shoes*
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Yes, everyone should park in the UPPER lot at the clubhouse. Do not park in lower lot as that is the shuttle turn around spot. For those who are not members with their own carts, we will have golf cart shuttles out to Hole 15. If you are a Del Mar member and have a golf cart, you may park at the clubhouse and take your cart up to Hole 15. Please park in designated golf cart area.
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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?
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Yes, there are shuttle services from the hotel to the ceremony location & back. Please see the Travel page for more information.
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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?
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Yes, please reach out to Mary at 309-830-0213 if you have any specific allergies.
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Are you registered? Where?
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We don't need anything! But for anyone who would like to gift us something, we have a honeymoon fund on the registry page. We are not doing a traditional wedding registry.
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What if I am no longer able to make it after I have already RSVPd Yes?
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If you have a last minute change in plans and are unable to attend, please reach out to Mary at 309-830-0213.