FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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As soon as you know — but no later than August 15th. Please and thank you. We’ve got a lot to plan and a guest list to finalize, and spreadsheets wait for no one.

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony starts at 5:00 PM sharp. Doors open at 4:45 PM. If you're fashionably late, please aim for fashionable and seated.

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What should I wear?

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Cocktail/formal attire, but make it you. Short dress, long dress, jumpsuit, any color suit — go off. Ties are optional, confidence is not. If you were curious, the bridal party will be wearing olive green. And hey — unless you’re the bride or you’ve cleared it with her directly, maybe leave the white at home. Love you, mean it.

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Indoor? Outdoor? Melting?

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Weather permitting, cocktail hour will be outside. The ceremony and reception will be indoors (God bless the inventor of A/C). We do have backup plans if Texas decides to Texas so no one’s getting stuck in the rain or heat.

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What’s the weather like in The Woodlands in late September?

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Honestly? It's a wild card. Expect humid with a 90% chance of your hair doing whatever it wants. Temps hover in the 80s during the day, but it can get cooler at night. Bring layers and maybe some hairspray.

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Will there be a shuttle between the hotel and venue?

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Yes! Shuttle service will run in a loop between Hotel Indigo and the venue starting at 4:00pm. The shuttle will also run between the venue back to the hotel starting at 10:00pm-11:30pm.

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Where should I park?

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There’s parking at the venue! But if you're planning to enjoy the open bar (and we hope you are), please be smart and rideshare or take the shuttle. Your car will thank you, and so will we. If you do have a bit too much fun and can't get yourself home, the venue requests that you leave your keys with them and come back to pick your car up by 7am the following day.

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Can I bring my kids?

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If your little ones are listed on your invitation — yes! If not, consider this your chance for a grown-up night. We’re working on coordinating trusted childcare for our out-of-town guests who want to celebrate sans sippy cups. More info soon!

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Will there be a vibe shift mid-wedding?

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Around 9:30 PM, the vibe will shift: lights down, volume up, questionable dance moves engaged. Might be time for the littles to hit the hay. We love your kids. We love our DJ more.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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If your invitation includes a plus one, we’re excited to meet them! If not, we love you solo and can’t wait to boogie with you.

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What's the drink situation?

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We’ll have an open bar with alcoholic and nonalcoholic options. Please bring your ID — bartenders are required to card even if you’ve aged like a fine wine.

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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Nope! We’re keeping the ceremony unplugged so you can actually experience it. Our photographers have it covered. Phones down, hearts open. We promise we'll give you your moment for the perfect picture.

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What if I have a dietary restriction?

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We’ve got you. Let us know on your RSVP and we’ll do our best to make sure you’re fed and happy. If we need to reach out for more info, we will!

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Is this a sit-and-look-cute wedding or a dance-until-my-feet-bleed wedding?

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The latter. There will be bops. There will be barefoot girlies. There may be a Swiftie moment. Plan accordingly. Bring your dancing shoes — heels, boots, crocs, we don’t judge. Just be ready to throw it down.

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Where should I stay?

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We’ve listed hotel recommendations under the Travel tab! The wedding party is staying at Hotel Indigo, and we’ve included options nearby for all vibes and budgets.

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Are you registered?

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Yes! We are registered here on Zola, Crate & Barrel, and Williams Sonoma. You can find our registry right here on the website under the Registry tab. Thank you for helping us start our next chapter.

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Can I change my RSVP later?

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Yes, as long as it's before August 15th. Please shoot Mary Hannah, Jacob, or one of their trusted counsel a text and it'll get squared away.

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Are there any events before or after the wedding?

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Yes! We'll be having come and go drinks on Friday night, check the schedule tab for more info!

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What should I do if I am running late?

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We totally understand that life (and Houston traffic) happens — but out of respect for the intimacy of the moment, late arrivals may need to wait until after the ceremony to be seated. We’d be heartbroken for you to miss it, so please plan to arrive a little early and settle in before the big “I do.”

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Who should I contact if I have a question on the day of?

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We love you dearly — but on the big day, the bride and groom will be a little busy getting married. If you need anything at all, please reach out to literally anyone else. A family member, a member of the wedding party, your hotel front desk, Siri — all great options. Just not us. In all seriousness, your first points of contact are the bride’s parents or the groom’s dad, all three will be holding it down with calm energy and probably a spreadsheet. Still need help? Work your way down the bridal party — they’ve been briefed, caffeinated, and emotionally prepared. Someone will have answers (or at least snacks).

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Will I be bullied by the bride or groom for my alma mater?

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Luckily for our Sooners, Jacob is a much nicer person than Mary Hannah and he won't say a word. Mary Hannah on the other hand.... not so much. Longhorns should expect at least one "Texas sucks" out of the bride on her wedding day. She has to get it out while she still can.

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Can I be seated near my emotional support bestie?

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Tell us on your RSVP. We’ll do our best. No guarantees, but we believe in keeping the girlies close. Or in setting people up via carefully curated seating charts. We'll never tell you which one it is.

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Wait, how did y’all meet?

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At Kirby Ice House. It started with Longhorn slander and ended with a love story. Proof that enemies-to-lovers isn’t just a trope.

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Okay but really, when did y'all meet?

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The exact timeline is protected under a joint NDA and sealed faster than a last-minute merger. All we’ll say is: the connection passed due diligence, emotions moved faster than market projections, and the acquisition? Fully consensual and wildly synergistic. This is decidedly the biggest deal Jacob will ever close.