Wedding Party

Monisha Lochard-Patel

Matron of Honor

Monisha and Mary Elizabeth met during their first year of color guard at Shelbyville high school, Monisha's sophomore year and Mary Elizabeth's freshman year. They shared many fun high school memories like trips to Starbucks, hot summer practices, and nights where they stayed up so late they got the tired giggles. As they grew up, they grew even closer over the years, making time for each other every time they could while living hours apart. Monisha and Mary Elizabeth have been there for each other through every major event in their adult life and will always continue to be there for one another as they grow older and closer. Monisha is intelligent and level headed. She's often the first one Mary Elizabeth calls when she has a problem because she will always listen and give sound advice.

Madisynn Wolfe

Matron of Honor

Madisynn and Mary Elizabeth meet at the University of Central Oklahoma where they studied elementary education together. They were in many classes together and soon Madisynn became Mary Elizabeth's snack buddy, valentine, and late night drunken call to talk about being in each others' weddings. In a short time they became best friends. Even after moving away from one another, they remain close and call each other often! Madisynn has been there for Mary Elizabeth and inserted herself in every aspect of her life as well as she can from several states away, befriending other bridesmaids, Cody, and family members. Madisynn is laid-back and honest, an amazing mother, a patient teacher, and a beautiful soul. This bond is one that withstands all.

Ashley Winningham

Matron of Honor

Ashley and Mary Elizabeth met during Mary Elizabeth's freshman year and Ashley's senior year of guard. Ashley was a captain and the younger girls gravitated towards her. Among others, Ashley took Mary Elizabeth under her wedding and became her big sis forever. Ashley is a loving mother to a beautiful baby girl who is her world and quickly stole Mary Elizabeth's heart. She is also a very passionate teacher who cares deeply for her students. Ashley is such a kind soul, the kind who will cry for no reason other than to keep you from crying alone. For years, Ashley has been Mary Elizabeth's glue. No matter what separated them, Ashley kept them in contact and never stops the video chats. She puts family and friendship so high on her priority list. Every life she touches is a lucky one.

Amber Reid

Bridesmaid

Amber is Mary Elizabeth's older sister. They went from from choreographing dances together to going on camping trips and having doggie playdates. Amber has a good heart and does what she can to make others happy. She loves animals and her job with the ASPCA. She is also a great athlete and a reliable friend, someone you definitely want in your corner.

Katie Messmore

Bridesmaid

Katie is Mary Elizabeth's oldest sister. She has a big heart. Katie is a hard worker who never has only one job at a time. She will always go out of her way to help people or rescue animals that need a home. She is a mother to two beautiful little boys who grow a little more each day. Family has always been important to Katie. She is creative and loves her work where she gets to display her amazing creativity. Katie is a ride or die type who is always there for those she loves through thick and thin.

Priyam Patel

Bridesmaid

Priyam and Mary Elizabeth first met at a Christmas party but didn't really become friends until a bit later, when they became each other's "dates" so neither was third wheeled. Priyam had such a kind and infectious personality it was easy to cling to her and become close friends. Now Mary Elizabeth relies on her and can't help but feel like there's something missing if Priyam isn't at a friend get together. She can make everyone around her laugh while holding herself and others to high standards. She's fun, silly, caring and a beautiful teacher who makes a difference in her students lives. Priyam is so easily loved by those who meet her and is truly an amazing friend.

Nicole Buckel

Bridesmaid

Nicole is Mary Elizabeth's future sister-in-law. They were both so anxious to meet one another and when they did it was instant family. Nicole fit so perfectly, like the missing puzzle piece. She is humorous and laid back, puts others before herself, and cares deeply for the feelings of others. Nicole is a compassionate teacher and loyal friend as well as a trustworthy fiancé to Mary Elizabeth's little brother.

Brooke Clark

Bridesmaid

Brooke is Cody's baby sister. They are 7yrs apart so Cody grew up looking out for her and holds dear fond memories of when she was young, even naming his cat after young Brooke's attempts to read. Brooke was a cheer leader and an amazing gymnast in high school and is now attending IUPUC with an interest in marketing and business management. When Mary Elizabeth met Cody she immediately recognized the bond he had with his sister so when the time came to meet Brooke she spent the whole night trying to think of something to spark conversation but was so nervous her mind went blank. Brooke quickly became one of Mary Elizabeth's favorite people with her kind nature and peppy personality (plus she bonded with Luffy)! With that very first hug Mary Elizabeth knew being sisters would come easy!

Joe Reid

Father of the Bride

I teach at Tri High School where I also coach football and wrestling. When coaching wresting at Shelbyville Middle School I coached skinny little 6th grade Cody. He was respectful, had a great attitude and worked hard, a coach's dream. After coaching him in 7th grade, I retired from coaching but saw Cody sometimes as he was a friend of my daughter, Mary Elizabeth. I mentioned to her several times that I thought she should date Cody but she always claimed they were just friends. Raising a large family Ruthie and I worked several jobs to send the kids to catholic schools and keep them in their activities. On weekends I cooked breakfast for the family. Mary Elizabeth would sit on the counter in the kitchen and sing with me. James Taylor's You've Got a Friend has become our own little anthem.

Ruthie Reid

Mother of the Bride

All I ever wanted was to be a mother! I have been abundantly blessed with my children.With Mary Elizabeth I have experienced one of the most frightening and one of the most joyous days of my life. Dec 2, 1992 I was told we might lose our baby girl. I was put on bed rest for 4 months, constantly praying. On June 3, 1993 the good Lord answered our prayers and our Mary Elizabeth was placed in my arms for the first time - healthy, beautiful & perfect! Mary Elizabeth and I share a love for musicals, Doris Day movies, White Christmas and so much more. A memory I cherish is singing Hello Dolly together. That memory will forever make my heart happy. Cody coming into Mary Elizabeth's life is another answered prayer for us! I'm so very happy for them both, that they have found true love & happiness.

Rich Clark

Father of the Groom

I’ve been married 33 years to my high school sweetheart and was blessed with 2 wonderful children. I worked at ICD for 20 years, 15 of which I was in management. I started my own business in 2006. Cody started working with me in 2016. He has been doing a great job helping our business grow. I remember traveling to Mexico a lot for work when Cody was young. He called me and told me to come home. I explained to him that I had to stay there for 2 more weeks and he said “No, I’m going to put my boots on and walk to Mexico to come get you”. I’m so thankful that Cody and Mary found each other and connected the way they did. She is exactly what I’ve always pictured for Cody. I’m excited that both my children have found someone to spend their lives with and I can’t wait to watch my family grow.

Sheila Clark

Mother of the Groom

I got married at age 20 to the man I love very much. We have been married for 33 years and have 2 wonderful children that we are proud of and blessed to have.I work as a Shipping Coordinator and have been there 29 years! Cody and I have many memories together but the one that always stays with me is when I got to hold him the first time! I never wanted to put him down. I had complications so that moment meant the world to me. We also loved laying on his bedroom floor many nights on his big red pillow reading books. I loved reading to him and he loved reading to me. I will always cherish it. When I met Mary I knew she was the right one because Cody was so happy with her. She fit right in with the family from day 1. We absolutely love her and so happy to add her to our family. Love you both!

Charlotte (lottie) Winningham

Flower Girl

Charlotte will be 2 years old at the wedding and is already working on getting that strut down. She's an independent baby being groomed to be a Disney kid like her mama and Mary Elizabeth (her meme). Lottie was a covid baby so she didn't get to be socialized right away but had many video calls with Mary Elizabeth and still does to this day. Lottie accompanies the bride and bridesmaids on most visits and everyone cannot get enough of her. She will make a beautiful flower girl!

Kora Stevens

Flower Girl

Kora's personality is the spitting image of her mom (and of Mary Elizabeth). She is quite a kick with her sassy personality and go getter attitude. Kora lives dance and she loves banking time with her mom. She definitely knows what she wants and is excited to be a flower girl for the very first time!

Elliott Newbold

Ring Bearer

Elliott is Mary Elizabeth's nephew (soon to be Cody's too!) and he is an avid gamer. He can't wait to be a YouTuber (when mom says he's old enough of course 😅). El loves to sing, dance, and practice various accents.

Emmitt Newbold

Ring Bearer

Emmitt is Mary Elizabeth's nephew (though he already seems to see Cody as an uncle) and he one of those kids who is good at just about everything. He is a problem solver and a natural athlete. Emmitt is always first to try to resolve a situation and loves to help others.

Joey Reid

Ring Bearer

Joey is Mary Elizabeth's nephew (soon to be Cody's too!) and he sometimes goes by his super hero name, Joseph the Golden Heart (Shh it's a secret identity). He loves football, gymnastics, and art.

Isabella Walters

Alter Server

Isabella is Mary's cousin. She has always been incredibly mature for her age and always so kind. Mary Elizabeth's favorite memory of her is when baby Bella would sit under the table at Indiana Beach and sing the 50 states song with empathize on OHIIIIIIIIO! Now she is growing into an amazing artist and athlete. Bella is respectful and compassionate. She takes am interest in volleyball, cooking delicious meals, and letting her creativity shine through beautiful artwork and elaborate story telling. Bella is certainly a well-rounded, intelligent, and beautiful person whom Mary Elizabeth and Cody are so blessed and so grateful to have as part of their receiving of the sacrament of marriage.

Matthew Stevens

Alter Server

Matthew is Mary Elizabeth's cousin and Kora's brother. They're excited that they both get to participate in the wedding together. Matt has a quieter personality but if you start a conversation about football he can go on forever. Matt loves working out with his mom and playing football (in which he seems very well versed). He is one of the kindest young men his age you will ever meet, very rarely (if ever) having anything negative to say. Matthew is strong and can stay positive through hard and scary times. He recently had a scare that he wouldn't be able to play football anymore but he faced it bravely and head-on. God had a hand on him and he walked out well and ready for next season! It is truly a gift to have this kind, loving soul as part of the ceremony.

Hope Andrews

Alter Server

Hope is Mary Elizabeth's cousin. She has an incredibly kind heart and is an excellent role model. At a young age Hope began leaving sweet notes around the house and recognizing her many blessings, making sure to pray thanks. Hope always exudes a good attitude and her smile is contagious. She doesn't hesitate to say hello to all she passes. Hope loves volleyball and family. She is a smart, empathetic, respectful, and hardworking girl with strong faith. Mary Elizabeth and Cody could not be happier to have her take part in the ceremony as they become husband and wife.

Father Mike Keucher

Officiant

Logan Hannah

Best Man

I like golfing and watching movies. I recently started working with the post office. Cody and I met in 6th grade during wrestling and have been inseparable ever since.

Paul Caldwell

Groomsman

Cody and I met during Babe Ruth baseball way back when we must have been 7 or 8 at most. We played on multiple teams together and became close. Regardless of physical distance at some points I’m glad to say we’ve remained that way over the years. One of my favorite memories with Cody was getting to go to state with him in track our senior years and getting to completely skip the majority of our graduation ceremony. Needless to say, I’m honored to be a part of he and Mary’s big day as they begin their new chapter of life together.

Adam Miller

Groomsman

I met Cody, when he wrestled in High school and I was a volunteer for Coach Hall. Then we coached together for 5 years. Cody also attended my wedding when he was in high school so I am excited that I get to be a part of his now!

Josh Branson

Groomsman

I met Cody in high school. I don't remember when but we have hung out since. We wrestled together, then I even coached him in wrestling. We went to youth group and church together. I hate Cody less than I hate most other people and that is why we get along.

Nathan Lyon

Groomsman

I have been a fire fighter at Edinburgh for a year and a half. On my days off I install garage doors for Martin overhead door. When I first met Cody I was nervous because it was Brooke’s older brother and I saw the bond they had together. Over the years we have become really close and he is the best future brother in law anyone could ask for. I am grateful to be apart of his wedding!

David Jackson

Groomsman

I am Cody’s Uncle Dave! I am a Teacher and Coach at Greensburg High School. I am the youngest (and greatest sibling to his Mom. I've known Cody his entire life and have enjoyed watching him from the wirey young kid phase to the driven young man he is today. Cody and I always clicked due to our similar personalities and love of sports. I loved watching him play. We bond over music, which can be blamed on his Dad. I’m lucky to have Cody as a nephew but it’s more than that. He's one of my closest friends. Cody’s greatest characteristic is his love of family. He is the best big brother, a respectful son and I’m so grateful to be part of his life. He found the girl of his dreams and I am honored to stand up with him as we accept Mary into our family! She fits in perfectly…better than I do :)

Griffin Reid

Groomsman

I am Mary’s little brother and the youngest in the family. I’m currently a graduate student at IU studying political science. Growing up, Mary always made a point to come to whatever extracurriculars I was involved in. Cody was a senior on the track team when I joined as a freshman, but I didn’t meet him until he “accidentally” ran into Mary while we were out one night. I’m excited to have a new brother and a new addition to our golf group!

Charlie Tolley

Groomsman

I'm Mary Elizabeth's oldest brother. I work at Shelbyville Paint as their paint specialist and am lucky enough to say that I love my job. I'm an artistic person that is passionate about sports and my family. I'm so happy that my baby sister is getting married and I can't wait to be a part of it. I'll always have a big spot for you in my heart, My Mary.