FAQs

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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October 18

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What should I wear?

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Our dress code is cocktail attire—aka, dressy but not too serious. Need a mental image? If you’d wear it to a fancy date night, a classy party, or the kind of event where someone hands you a glass of champagne and says, “You look amazing”—you’re on the right track. For the ladies: a chic dress, a jumpsuit that says I have my life together, or anything that pairs well with compliments. For the fellas: a suit or nice blazer with dress pants—no cargo shorts, we beg you. And don’t forget: we’re feeling blue in the best way. Shades of blue are the vibe, so channel your inner sapphire and show up looking like a dream. 💙 If you need visual examples for cocktail attire, please visit https://thevenueatwhiteoaksfarm.com/cocktail-attire-wedding-guide/

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Is the wedding ceremony/reception indoors or outdoors?

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Both the wedding ceremony and the reception will be indoors.

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How far away is the reception from the ceremony?

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It is a 30 minute drive.

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Are you registered anywhere?

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We sure are! You can find our registry on Zola, with the added bonus of a Honeyfund for those who’d rather contribute to experiences over stuff. Because memories > another blender.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We’ve given the royal “plus-one privilege” to a few lucky guests. Not sure if you’re one of them? Don’t worry—we won’t make you guess! Just ask the bride or groom (we don’t bite). We kindly ask that no surprise plus-ones show up—we’re covering $25 per person for dinner, and while we love unexpected dance moves, unexpected guests are a little trickier. Thanks for keeping things smooth and celebration-ready!