FAQs

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Should I RSVP online or by mail?

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Please RSVP online using the "RSVP" tab along the top bar of this website. We will open RSVPs once we send out invitations. We're planning to send invitations in September 2024.

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Is there parking at the venue?

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Yes! There is a large, free parking lot directly to the right of the main gate of the venue along W. Orange Grove Rd. There will be a "parking" sign to help direct you. You will not be able to turn into the main gates of the venue. You are permitted to leave your car parked overnight, but it must be picked up by 11 am the following day.

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Can I take photos / videos during the ceremony?

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We are having an "unplugged" ceremony, so no cell phones during our special moments, please. Our professional photographer will take care of pictures so that you can be in the moment. We promise to share our photos as soon as they are ready! You are welcome to take pictures during the reception.

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Is your wedding indoors or outdoors?

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Our wedding will be primarily outdoors. There are a few indoor spaces to relax if you would like, but all of the main events are happening outside. The weather in Tucson during March is typically warm during the day (high 70s - low 80s) and chilly in the evening (50s - 60s). You will probably want a light jacket for the evening!

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Is there a dress code?

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We're so excited to see all of our friends and family dressed up! The dress code for our wedding is formal cocktail attire. No need to wear a tux and ball gown, but please do not wear jeans, sandals or tennis shoes. Need some inspiration? Check out our guest look book Pinterest board! - https://www.pinterest.com/abbyre36/wedding/guest-lookbook/

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Can I have a plus one?

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We have carefully curated our guest list to be all of our closest loved ones. All invited guests and plus one's are written on your invitation.

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Can I bring my children?

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Our wedding is adults-only and any invited children will be written specifically on your invitation. We appreciate your understanding.

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Is Abby changing her name?

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While Abby is not legally changing her last name, she loves being addressed as Abby Bender and still pinches herself every time that she hears or sees her new name!