Can I wear 'xyz' color: If you think it's too close to white, it is. Is beige okay? Yes. We'd just don't want anyone showing up in white/off white etc. Are shorts okay? Please no shorts for the wedding. Save these for the welcome drinks & beach Do I have to wear a maxi dress? No, the list is for inspiration. Are jackets or ties required for men? No. It may be a little too hot to wear these things, but you're welcome to if it makes you feel nice. Can women wear pants suits? Yes please! As long as it's not white/off-white
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If your child is listed on your invitation or your invitation says '[Last Name] Family' they are welcome to attend.
If a "Guest" is listed on your invitation, you are welcome to invite a +1.