If you did not RSVP (including no response) , we kindly ask that you do not show up to attend the wedding. Our event is RSVP only and we will not be able accommodate non RSVP’s due to venue restrictions we must adhere to .
“Unfortunately, we have a strict guest list to stay on budget. Our celebration is strictly RSVP only. We will only be able to accommodate those listed on your wedding invitation.
" Unfortunately.... No ( besides those playing a role in our ceremony) . While we love your little ones, our wedding will be an adults-only event due to venue space restrictions . We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time and leaving the kids at home so you can celebrate with us.”
All Day of Wedding events will be held at The Upchurch 7213 Roberts Road, Cary, NC 27519
“Help us get the party started as scheduled! We recommend that you arrive 30 minutes before the start of the 4pm ceremony to make sure everyone is seated on time.”
"We'd love to see our family and friends get dressed up for our big day! “The dress code for our wedding is semi-formal/cocktail attire. Think cocktail dresses or a suit and tie or a sports coat" Please refrain from wearing white or ivory
"The ceremony will be taking place on the Magnolia Lawn outdoors. The cocktail hour and reception will be held indoors."
"You will be missed! If you cannot attend our wedding please indicate your regrets on our RSVP tab so we can plan accordingly or email us mandkmccrae2024@gmail.com
"We kindly request that our ceremony remains unplugged. We want our guests to be fully present and enjoy the special moment with us and also allow our photographer to capture great shots free of distractions. Please refrain from using electronic devices during the ceremony. Let's cherish these moments together, free from distractions."
"We would love for you to capture and share joyous moments on social media! During the ceremony we kindly ask for "unplugged" atmosphere allowing our professional photographers to beautifully capture the moment. However, feel free to take and share photos during the remainder of our wedding. Don't forget to use our hashtag #ForeverAndMcCrae to share the love."
“ We will be serving light passed hors d’oeuvres accompanied by our signature cocktail."
"We will be supplying alcohol and have a bartending service who will be handling the beverages. Due to venue policy, you are not allowed to bring any other alcoholic beverages on the premise."
“After the ceremony, the wedding party will be taking pictures nearby for around an hour. Guests can head straight into the House & Patio, where we will be serving light passed hors d’oeuvres accompanied by our signature cocktail during a cocktail hour.”
Raleigh-Durham International Airport -RDU ( 2400 John, Brantley Boulevard, Morrisville, NC 27560 ). There is a roundtrip shuttle between the hotel and the airport.
"We have arranged roundtrip transportation between the host hotel Courtyard Marriot Cary-Parkside (1008 Parkside Main St, Cary, NC 27519) and the venue The Upchurch (7213 Roberts Road, Cary, NC 27519). Schedule can be found in your welcome bag and at the front desk."
Please find the RSVP link on the RSVP tab before 3/1/2024.
"Yes there is minimal parking available. We have arranged roundtrip transportation for those staying at the host hotel Courtyard Marriott Cary-Parkside and the venue The Upchurch. Schedule can be found in your welcome bag and the front desk."
3/1/2024. If you do not RSVP (including no response) , we kindly ask that you do not show up to attend the wedding. Our event is RSVP only and we will not be able accommodate non RSVP’s due to venue restrictions we must adhere to .
“Due to the space limitations of our venue, we unfortunately have to limit the rehearsal lunch guest list to those who will be playing a role in the ceremony. We apologize in advance to those who are not included.”
Please see the schedule tab for weekend events including Friday Welcome Party and Sunday Farewell Brunch
Courtyard Marriott Cary- Parkside 1008 Parkside Main St, Cary, NC 27519. ALL RESERVATIONS NEED TO MADE PRIOR TO 4/5/2024. Book your group rate for Simmons/McCrae Wedding https://www.marriott.com/events/start.mi?id=1690223298194&key=GRP Discount Code - NO CODE--- USE LINK It is not far from the ceremony and reception space and transportation will be provided from here. Additionally the hotel offers shuttle to and from RDU airport. Reservations can be made online https://www.marriott.com/events/start.mi?id=1690223298194&key=GRP or by calling 919 659 1250 requesting room under SIMMONS/MCCRAE Wedding Group . Our hotel contact is Ashely Thompson ashley.r.thompson@marriott.com if you have any additional questions.
" We have a block of rooms booked at the Courtyard Marriott Cary- Parkside 1008 Parkside Main St, Cary, NC 27519. We would prefer our guests to stay here to keep updated on wedding events. ALL RESERVATIONS NEED TO MADE PRIOR TO 4/5/2024. Reservations can be made online or by calling 919 659 1250 requesting room under SIMMONS/MCCRAE Wedding Group . " Book your group rate for Simmons/McCrae Wedding https://www.marriott.com/events/start.mi?id=1690223298194&key=GRP We have provided alternate options below that are located close to the venue. We have not reserved or contacted them and cannot provide any information on rates or availability. •Alternate Hotels: • Aloft Raleigh-Durham Airport Brier Creek 10020 Sellona St, Raleigh, NC 27617•(919) 957-8523 Holiday Inn Express Apex-Raleigh, an IHG Hotel 1006 Marco Dr, Apex, NC 27502• (919) 387-3636 Hyatt House Raleigh Durham Airport 10962 Chapel Hill Rd, Morrisville, NC 27560•(919) 388-5355 The Westin Raleigh-Durham Airport 3931 Macaw St, Raleigh, NC 27617• (919) 224-1400 Towne Place Suites by Marriott Raleigh Cary/Weston Parkway 120 Sage Commons Way, Cary, NC 27513 • (919) 678-0005
"The entire property is ADA compliant except for the 2nd floor of The Main House (where the dressing suites are housed). There is a wheelchair accessible ramp leading into the first floor of The Main House, ADA compliant restrooms and multiple, paved, accessible parking spaces."
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"Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for! If you would like to honor us with a gift, you can have it delivered to our home . A wedding card box will be at our reception."
“Yes! We recommend visiting the ‘Things to Do’ page of our wedding website, where we’ve compiled all of our favorite local hot spots and fun things to do in the area, including coffee shops, spas and restaurants to visit before or after the wedding.”
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