FAQs
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Is there a dress code?
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We ask that guests wear Hawaiian formal attire. Here’s what that looks like for our celebration: Color Palette: We’d love for everyone to wear tropical-inspired colors from our palette above—green, pink, blue, orange/peach, and yellow. For Women: Colorful dresses in flowy, lightweight fabrics such as chiffon, linen, or cotton are ideal. Floral prints, tropical patterns, or any solid color from our palette work well. Sandals or dressy flats are a great choice for footwear. For Men: Collared button-down shirts with dress slacks or linen trousers. Aloha shirts are encouraged, and there’s no need for jackets or ties. Please Avoid: We ask that you skip all-black outfits, formal business suits or tuxedos, and heavy or dark fabrics.
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by February 16, 2026, so we can finalize all the details. We hope you can join us, but please note that we’ll only be able to accommodate guests who RSVP by this date for the ceremony and dinner.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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The ceremony begins at 4:00 PM. Please arrive 30 minutes early to find your seat and settle in. Immediate family members (parents and siblings) should plan to arrive earlier, by 2:30 PM, as we will be taking photos at that time.
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Can I bring a date?
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To keep our ceremony intimate, we are unable to accommodate additional guests or dates.
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Are kids welcome?
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We love your little ones, but this will be an adults-only celebration unless otherwise specified on your invitation. Thank you for understanding.
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Do you have any hotel recommendations?
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We will be staying at The Kahala. Here are some other hotels near The Kahala in Honolulu: Lotus Honolulu at Diamond Head A quiet hotel with ocean and Diamond Head views, located a short drive from The Kahala. Kaimana Beach Hotel A beachfront hotel with a relaxed atmosphere and a popular open-air restaurant. Halepuna Waikiki by Halekulani An upscale hotel in Waikiki offering comfortable accommodations and attentive service. The Ritz-Carlton Residences, Waikiki Beach Luxury suites with ocean views and a range of amenities. Halekulani Hotel A well-known Waikiki hotel with oceanfront location and excellent service.