Casual - shoes are optional. Think backyard boho barbeque. Most gals are wearing casual summery dresses, and most guys are wearing pants and a button up.
Currently the only accommodations we are making are for our older and wiser guests. We are planning on making a "VIP section" for the grandparents and letting them have their own space, as well as getting them food and drinks first. Since the wedding is being held at their home, we ask that people do not go into the house except to use the one restroom available inside. There will also be a classy porta potty outside to try to help people out. Besides that, we are feeling it out to see what everyone feels comfortable with. Please please please let us know if you would like different accommodations or want to be seated with only certain people for dinner! We are willing to do whatever it takes for you to feel safe and welcome. For food and drink: There will be someone serving dessert and drinks, and dinner will be serve yourself. However we will have everyone use their own utensils through the buffet to get food on their plate.